Wednesday, May 8, 2024

THE MYSTERIOUS CONSEQUENCES OF THE PAST


HANK PHILLIPPI RYAN: Do you know the fabulous Katherine Reay? She has a brilliant new book out right now called THE BERLIN LETTERS— which was recently picked as an NPR “Must Read.” Whoa.


And quickly, here’s the scoop: Uncovering a startling family secret sets CIA cryptographer Luisa Voekler on the journey of a life-time from Washington DC to East Berlin, during the tumultuous first week in November 1989, and deep into Berlin’s divided history in an effort to understand her past, change her future, and rescue her father from a Stasi prison.


Whoa. The Booklist starred review says 'Fans of codebreakers, spies, and Cold War dramas will be entrapped by Reay's tale of courage, love, and honor set against the rise and fall of the Berlin Wall.'


(And oh, yes. Katherine is giving a paperback book to one super-lucky commenter—US only please, the international postage is monstrous.)

 

But THE BERLIN LETTERS is all about startling family secrets. We’ve talked about them here before, but today Katherine has a fascinating new way to look at them.

First, I cannot resist showing you this photo of Katherine's grandmother, the far left, with her two sisters in Miami, taken sometime in the late 1930s.





Can’t you instantly tell there are stories here? You'll hear about it below.


THE MYSTERIOUS CONSEQUENCES OF THE PAST
By Katherine Reay

 



I’m continually astounded at how much fiction not only illuminates the human experience, but teaches me something new about it as well. I find it in the books I read, and I find it in the books I write.


Several years ago, I wrote a fun contemporary novel titled The Printed Letter Bookshop and, within that tiny store, three women work out love and life. Through mishaps, mayhem, and misunderstandings, they may also save the bookstore.


But what struck me while writing that story was not the misunderstandings that happen within the shop, but the misunderstandings within each character’s life before she stepped onto the page. I don’t know if I had the intention as I began writing, but The Printed Letter Bookshop is as much about the present and a charming bookstore as it is about each woman’s past, whether she truly understands that past or not.

As I wrapped up that novel and began imagining a new one, I learned a family story — about my own past.

It’s always been known in my family that back in the 1920s my grandmother and her two sisters were sent from their home in Charleston, South Carolina, to live with their aunt in Miami, Florida. Family-lore attributed the move to my grandmother’s allergies.

However, about four years ago, my grandmother’s younger sister was nearing the end of her life and began sharing childhood stories with her own children. She told them that she and her sisters were not sent away because of my grandmother’s allergies, but because their father had remarried after their mother’s death and their new stepmother wanted them out of the house. Their aunt in Miami, thankfully, took the three young girls in.

And here they all are.




Now, the reason I opened this story stating it was about “my past” is because that’s what the past does — it trickles down generations. I will never know, especially because my grandmother never mentioned this chapter in her life, how she felt about it or how it formed her.

But there is no way it didn’t carry consequences.

Such a water-shed moment had to have influenced the way she thought about love, unconditional and conditional, family, fathers, marriage, loyalty, and, without doubt, stepmothers. I would bet there wasn’t an aspect of her inner-world that did not change in that moment. And, if that’s true, there’s no way it didn’t shape how she raised her own four children, and, perhaps, the way my own father parented his three kids.

 

I hold no assumptions, by the way. I do not assume the consequences were all or in part negative. She may not have known herself — or it may have been obvious to her every day of her life. As she never talked about it, there will never be answers to those questions. But that’s part of life, too, isn’t it? We more often live without answers than we rest in confident knowledge and clarity.

After all, while I might assume such an event would make a person more circumspect and wary, perhaps it made my grandmother more open, loyal, loving, and devoted. I have wonderful memories of her, despite the fact she cooked green beans from morning to dinnertime. She was involved, interested, and very present to all her grandchildren. We lived in the same city during my elementary school years and enjoyed dinners at my grandparents’ home almost every Sunday.

The point is — this is what I love about fiction. Through novels, we get to explore the past, its implications and its consequences, in varied and nuanced ways. We, as readers, get to dip our toes into those experiences, try them on, see how they fit, and learn new tidbits about life and the human experience from them — all from the safety of our armchairs.

And I’m not maligning those armchairs either. That’s a vital part of this incredibly vulnerable experience because, I suspect, without that safety-net we would instinctively put our defenses and keep ourselves from venturing so far. Fiction sneaks into our souls because it wraps us in an “illusion” and, wrapped in that fictional dream, we often forget it often presents a reality more solid than the most trusted fact.

 

Are there family stories that have surprised and shaped you? And what are some of your favorite novels that shaped your thinking? 

 

HANK: Oh, this has really got me thinking. Well, my step-father's mother had a club of her friends, back in the say, forties. They were extremely excruciatingly careful about who they would allow to join. They were so picky and persnickety that they could never find anyone good enough to keep the club alive, so it just...died along with them. I think that is incredibly powerful. And ridiculous. And sad. I think about it all the time. It was called The Tuesday Club, I just remembered. SO funny.


And how about you, Reds and Readers?

Don’t forget to comment to enter to win THE BERLIN LETTERS!

 

 


Katherine Reay is a national bestselling and award-winning author of several novels, including A SHADOW IN MOSCOW and her recent release, THE BERLIN LETTERS, a Cold War spy novel, inspired by the Berlin Wall and the women who served in the CIA’s Venona Project, which was recently picked as a NPR “Must Read.” When not writing, Katherine hosts the What the Dickens Book Club on Facebook and weekly chats with authors and booksellers at The 10 Minute Book Talk on Instagram. But if she’s really lucky, you’ll find her fly fishing and hiking in Montana. You can meet Katherine at www.katherinereay.com or on Facebook: KatherineReayBooks, Twitter: @katherine_reay and Instagram: @katherinereay


103 comments:

  1. Congratulations, Katherine, on your newest book . . . "The Berlin Letters" sounds so mesmerizing; it's already on my must-read list and I'm looking forward to meeting Luisa . . . .

    Favorite novels that helped shape my thinking? "To Kill a Mockingbird" immediately springs to mind . . . .

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanMay 8, 2024 at 9:38 AM

      Oh, good choice! Of course!

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    2. Thank you! I loved writing that story and agree about To Kill A Mockingbird. In fact, in another spy novel I wrote, A Shadow in Moscow, a spy picks SCOUT as her codename in honor of that story.

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  2. I've been thinking a lot about family history and folk lore lately, and I'm pretty sure it's going to work it's way into a book fairly soon. I can't wait to read THE BERLIN LETTERS. It sounds amazing. Congratulations, Katherine!

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      Cannot wait! Keep us posted…

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    2. Thanks! Have fun working it in... It does create endless interest. We have those histories.

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  3. This is wonderful, Katherine. Thank you for sharing the story of your grandmother and great aunts. And for being open about how it might have affected them. The new book sounds fabulous.

    Five years ago I found a photograph of one of my grandmothers (the highly domestic one) as a young woman reading a letter with a rifle across her lap. I was stunned, and it prompted me to spin an alternate reality for her as a lady PI in 1920 with her business partner, my other grandmother (the two were as unalike as possible in real life, so they make a great fictional sleuthing pair). I'm two books in, with one already published!

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanMay 8, 2024 at 9:39 AM

      Wow, what a life-changing moment!

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    2. Wow! That does sound amazing and congrats on two interesting stories.

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  4. I love the photo of the 3 sisters and also your essay about them. Really cannot wait to read now...thanks for stopping in today!

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanMay 8, 2024 at 9:40 AM

      Yes, those women are so of the time! I remember pictures of my mother looking like that
      —-can that be?

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    2. You are so welcome. I was delighted to be asked to be here.

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  5. Certainly made me think about my past and present. Love the photo of your grandmother and great-aunts. Can’t wait to read your book, Katherine. Thanks for sharing!

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanMay 8, 2024 at 9:40 AM

      Yes, that’s what makes us who we are. Or does it?

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  6. KATHERINE: You got my attention with the Booklist review. I am a sucker for Cold War dramas, secrets & betrayal. Looking forward to learning family history & secrets are portrayed in your book.

    The 1989 Berlin timeframe reminded me about seeing the Berlin Wall from the air as my PanAm flight from Toronto landed in Berlin in 1986. I m remember spending an afternoon as a solo tourist in East Berkin after crossing Checkpoint Charlie. The dramatic contrast between the modern West Berlin & the dour, grey, oppressed East Berlin is a vivid memory.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanMay 8, 2024 at 9:41 AM

      Oh, I had a similar experience many years before that… In 1967? It was absolutely chilling.

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    2. I hope you'll enjoy the book. I definitely worked to capture those differences. What an experience you had!

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    3. Grace, what an experience! Hank, you, too.
      Katherine, your new book sounds just wonderful and I too, am intrigued by the subject. The family photo of your grandmother and her sisters is divine.

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  7. Family stories vs. family lies. It's fascinating how the narrative gets changed with revelations that come from historical research, or now with DNA, surprise relations because of previously unknown infidelities or indiscretions. Things we thought we knew about our families and ourselves get turned on their heads.

    We just got home from an epic trip to my husband's family past, and our heads are still spinning from new information. Steve's dad rarely spoke of his father who left Poland in about 1910. Turns out he was from a large family of seven or eight children (we are still fuzzy on this because of uneven Polish to English translations), and was the only one to leave the area. Even today, most of the family lives in the same lovely town. We met nearly two dozen new family members, including some from four generations, ages one month to 95. I have a feeling more revelations may come, too.

    Katherine, your grandmother and great aunts were stunning women. That situation must have made a monumental impact on all their lives.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanMay 8, 2024 at 9:42 AM

      Oh, what a journey in every way!

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    2. What a tremendous experience for you! And, yes, I agree those three girls were indelibly affected -- I just wish we could have talked about it. I must say, it was real surprise for my dad when his cousin called him.

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  8. Cathy Akers-JordanMay 8, 2024 at 8:07 AM

    My comment isn’t about something that shaped me, but an event that was shaped by my family. Towards the end of his life, my uncle told we had a relative who committed suicide over a banking scandal. Of course I immediately thought of Uncle Billy losing the $8,000 in It’s a Wonderful Life, a mistake that could have led to ruin, scandal and prison. Recently I discovered the real story while doing research on Ancestry. My great-uncle DID commit suicide in 1924 and he did work in a bank. According to multiple newspaper stories the bank accounts were in order. I looked at family events at the time: his stepmother disappeared in a terrible tornado that destroyed his parents’ home almost a month before and his little son was injured. He must’ve been terribly depressed which is probably why he killed himself. The day after he died, his stepmother’s body was finally found. The family immediately dissociated itself from his disgraceful death. There wasn’t even an obituary! Over the years the story somehow changed to involve a banking scandal. I guess suicide was an honorable way out if you were guilty of a crime but scandalous if you you depressed. This was 1924 and mental health wasn’t well understood. The family probably thought he was crazy, and if he was, who else in the family might also be crazy? What’s interesting is that 80 years later my uncle, who was two when it happened, was still ashamed and wouldn’t even tell me which relative killed himself, he wouldn’t even tell me his name! The family story of a banking scandal and shame worked so well that I almost never heard this false story! Thank God a few clues led me to the truth. I mourn for this great-uncle everyone has forgotten, for his pain and despair, for the lack of mental health support that made him think there was no other way out, and for the society that taught him that men didn’t have emotions.

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    1. Cathy, what an interesting (and truly sad) story. It's nice that you've been able to reconstruct some of his life through research on Ancestry.

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    2. Cathy Akers-JordanMay 8, 2024 at 9:13 AM

      When you start researching genealogy, many people warn you that you might not like what you find. I always thought that referred to finding that some relative was a bigamist or something. Since both sides of my family are from the south, I expected to find slave owners, but I never expected to find something else that the family was so ashamed of that they never even talked about it!

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    3. Hank Phillippi RyanMay 8, 2024 at 9:43 AM

      That is so powerful. And shows you how intensely people care about how they are viewed by others. I agree with you, so incredibly sad.

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    4. That is such a sad story all around. Thank you for sharing. And I agree, those stories and the subsequent stories we tell ourselves to feel comfortable matter and carry consequences.

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  9. I just finished reading THE BERLIN LETTERS, Katherine, and enjoyed it. I’ve been watching FINDING YOUR ROOTS on PBS which often explores “family lore.” Usually that means no one wanted to talk about something painful from the past. My birth family certainly followed this to a T!~Emily Dame

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanMay 8, 2024 at 9:43 AM

      You are inspiring me to watch that show! I have never seen it…

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    2. I hadn't heard of that show! Thanks for the recommendation.

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    3. Finding Your Roots with Henry Louis Gates (Yale University) is one of the best shows on TV.
      Each episode follows 2-3 famous people - starting out with their current bio's. Then the show focuses on each individual with a question the person has regarding their family roots. They often go back hundreds of years. In Michael Strahan's (football/Good Morning America) case he is related to Charles II (French king), as well as Kings Henry I, II, III and a direct descendent of Charlemagne. Brooks Shields also is related to Queen Elizabeth's 18 cousin once removed through Henry II of France among other famous kings.
      They also do DNA testing and many of the show participants find out they are related to other famous people.
      Pres. Obama & Brad Pitt (9th cousins), John Lithgow & Henry Louis Gates, Ru Paul & Cory Booker, Ben Afflect & Matt Damon (10 cousins), etc. It is such an interesting show!

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  10. Katherine, your book is definitely on my TBR list. What. A wonderful photo of your grandmother and her sisters. Family secrets and unknown, the. Cold War, spies! I was in Berlin for work in May of 1990. So many stories. And how different was East Berlin from West Berlin!

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    1. SO agree. When I was there, it was as if East Berlin was just frozen in the past.

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    2. Agree you both about East Berlin seemingly frozen in the past. The contrast between there & West Berlin was striking.


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  11. Congrats on your latest release! We just started watching a remake of "The Ipcress Files". I frantically looked up a map of the Berlin sectors in 1961 and background information on the era.

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      Oh, there is a remake? I think that movie may have been the first time I was aware of Michael Caine!

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    2. YES, I thought Michael Caine was great in the original Ipcress Files movie. I had read the Len Deighton spy novels as a teenager.

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  12. Katherine,your story is fascinating, and your book sounds just great! I didn't know my paternal grandmother, but she grew up in Londonderry, Northern Ireland and married my grandfather (from Leeds, England) after WWI. My Irish great-grandfather was a member of the Orange Order and used to march each July in the celebration of the Battle of the Boyne (or Orangeman's Day). Once my grandparents married, they traveled back to Northern Ireland each July and my grandfather marched in the parade too. Family lore has it that my great-grandfather was well respected by both the Catholic and Protestant sectors of the Londonderry community, but I'm not how much to believe, given the history.

    So many novels that impacted my thinking--one that comes to mind is Animal Dreams, by Barbara Kingsolver--specifically the idea that hope lies in doing something to make the world a better place.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanMay 8, 2024 at 9:48 AM

      Yes, so much changes in the telling! My grandmother used to talk about her “lovely village” in someplace in Russia, and the very kind soldiers who were also living there. Given that was probably around 1907? Can that be? I am not sure about the lovely town and kind of soldiers. I think her family escaped to the US soon after that.

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    2. We do have a way of reconstructing our stories, don't we? Thanks for sharing -- I lived in Ireland for several years, in County Wicklow.

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  13. Intriguing. So many unknowns, possibilities . . . I was startled when my grandma mentioned hiring out to work for a family when she was a young teen, which she said was common in her day, old enough to help and earn a wage. She also mentioned that she'd attended the St. Louis World's Fair ONE day, as her father didn't want his children hanging around so much potential trouble. Historical presentations of the Fair all seemed so upright and cultural. ;-)

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanMay 8, 2024 at 9:48 AM

      Oh, that reminds me of the Judy Garland movie!

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    2. Me too! Meet Me in St. Louis. I love that story, Mary.

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  14. Katherine, what a fascinating story. I am reminded of the saying by - I can't remember who, now - "Fiction is the lie that exposes the truth."

    My dad's parents rarely talked about their families, so who know what stories are there.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanMay 8, 2024 at 9:49 AM

      And in what level of truth they would even be, right?

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  15. KATHERINE: Welcome to Jungle Reds! I remember reading your novel, DEAR MR. KNIGHTLEY years ago. And Congratulations on the publication of THE BERLIN LETTERS.

    Your story about your grandmother is fascinating. I love reading about history too and I am fascinated by history. My WIP involves historical research. And I am still writing my cozy mystery novel.

    Which novels shaped my thinking? I loved THE LITTLE ENGINE THAT COULD because when I was a young child, I thought I was too little to be able to do things. There have been many books over the years that shaped my thinking.

    Diana

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      Oh, that is so sweet, and I will admit, I still think of that…

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  16. Congratulations on The Berlin Letters which sounds captivating and intriguing.
    Your photograph was wonderful and the story is extraordinary.
    In life there are family secrets, real life stories and so much more.
    When we are growing up it is unfortunate that we as children are not either interested or told about these family trials and tribulations.
    A book that shaped my thinking was Anne of Green Gables.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanMay 8, 2024 at 9:50 AM

      Oh my goodness, I saw agree! There’s so much I wish I would’ve asked. And I know when I eventually did, but I was told was… Shades of true.

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  17. Katherine, your book sounds wonderful! I love a good cold war story.

    My mother died in 2015, and since then my sister and I have been dismayed to learn that the romantic story we always heard about the beginning of our parents' life together was at least partly a lie. All evidence points to my mother having become pregnant before my father shipped out for Italy during WWII, and going to live with his mother because her own family disowned her. We have found a marriage license issued not in Louisiana where she grew up, but in Detroit, dated after Dad's return from the war. The version I learned growing up was that my dad's mother invited Mom to stay with her because her husband traveled for his work and she disliked staying alone so much.

    My biggest dismay is that my poor mother obviously never got past the "shame" of that, doubling down on the lie that they married before he shipped out as curious children asked for more details over the years. They went on to raise four children together and seemed still happy at his death in 1972. Surely the beauty of their union far outweighed the scandal of its beginning. It breaks my heart to think how she guarded that secret and what it must have cost her.

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    1. I agree. My heart breaks for her too as it sounds like a wonderful marriage and the real story shows so much conviction, courage, and sacrifice.

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    2. Hank Phillippi RyanMay 8, 2024 at 11:13 AM

      Oh my goodness, how poignant….. Yes, she was certainly a victim of the times…

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    3. Thank goodness for the kindness of your parents' mother in law.

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  18. Congratulations on your new book! Like all families, there are stories in the background of mine, too. My son discovered some when he did some Ancestry.com research, but this one wouldn't be discovered that way.
    My parents always told me my father was 4F during WWII - they were married in July 1941 and my brother was born in April 1942. They are both long gone now, but a recent conversation with my mother's youngest sister who was about 13 at the time and is now 94 revealed a different story. My father got his draft notice but didn't pass the physical; he needed a hernia operation and was told to get it within 6 months. He did so and when he got his new notice, he notified his employer who immediately panicked. My father worked at a factory that made supplies for the war. Women ran the machines, but he set up the machines for them. One man to set up all of the machines! His boss went to whoever he had to in the government and got my father some kind of necessary worker exemption. So he did serve, just at home doing necessary work. Since hearing this story, I've often wondered why my parents never told my siblings and me this whole story. It's not like it was anything to be ashamed of. Somehow, they thought 4F was better than a necessary worker? It's puzzling. And I'll never know the answer. I would make a good story though.

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    1. It's funny, isn't it? We see strength and they did not. My grandfather was 4F as well and he never talked about that too.

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    2. Hank Phillippi RyanMay 8, 2024 at 11:14 AM

      I am so fascinated that one of the themes of today’s blog comments seems to be coverups… Doesn’t it? How people decide what would look better to the world, and create their story around that. And how often they are… Wrong.

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  19. Sounds like a book i definitely want to read. My great grandparents on my moms side were Jewish emigrants from Latvia and Constantinople

    We have the mystery of who my dad’s biological father was. Even after my brother did a deep dive into our and retry the mystery remains. The story I heard was that he was a Spanish sailor and he died of TB. I am not sure about the sailor part but I think he did die of TB. My father never knew him. My grandmother came to the US and raised 6 children on her own for many years until she remarried. Part of my wants to fantasize about who my grandfather was and come up with all sorts of stories, but the larger part would like the truth.

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    1. Anonymous - there is a DNA test for long lost family members. Ancestry ProGenealogists can help people research biological family members.

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  20. Loved this, Katherine. Agree completely what you wrote ( and wrote very well) and looking forward to reading your new book. Definitely my kind of story. I always loved history and maybe it started from reading popular fiction in my childhood/teens- about old houses and their heritage.(Anyone remember Norah Lofts?) The oldest parts of US always drew me.My own books always have a thread or subplot of the past and its shadows and bright spots. No coincidence that the MC is history student doing research! PS I always thought I knew a lot of family history too, and it's only now - with no one left to ask - that see all the questions I didn't ask.

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    1. I expected some of the historical fiction and/or British writer to answer that. (Maybe old ones, like me) She was an immensely popular British writer of the 1940'- 70s, more or less.
      She wrote all kinds of books - and lots of them - but I read several that were based on very old houses through the century- and who lived in - and were shaped by - those homes. And how even forgotten family stories continued to have influence. I was deeply fascinated. I've read some as an adult and they hold up very well - intelligent, researched, unblinking about the past. (unlike some of other beloved but awful books from teen years) Recommend! https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Norah_Lofts

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  21. Congratulations on the new book, Katherine. 1989 is an interesting and relatively unmined timeframe for a book. My daughter was in Berlin when the wall came down and has a piece of it! I love books in which the present is impacted by secrets of the past

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    1. So many connections! I hope you give The Berlin Letters a try. Thanks!!!

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    2. That's the secret sauce for both of you!

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  22. Your book sounds amazing, Katherine. So many books, so little time. I remember reading Prelude To Terror. For me, as a teenager, it opened a different type of fiction. It was more intense than any book I had read before.

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    1. Thank you and, with that title, I can imagine it was impactful. :)

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    2. We so often have those turning-point books!

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  23. It might be terrible timing to write about this but here we go.
    My grandfather immigrated to the US soon after a terrible pogrom in his home city in which hundreds of Jews were murdered. A devout Zionist (someone who believed that Jews throughout the world could return to their homeland), there was always a blue box (a small coin collection box) to help Jews in the new state of Israel. Zionism is the expressed desire of the Jewish people throughout the ages, to return to the land of their ancestors, and was not only acceptable, but had been encouraged by intellectuals and some governments throughout Europe for over a century.

    The first adult book that I read at age 11 was EXODUS by Leon Uris. (Exodus has several different timelines and is told from several points of view, including 19th. Century Russia, early Jewish settlement in Palestine, the British Mandate, the horrors of Auschwitz, the founding of the State of Israel.) It has colored my life and driven my opinions for 65 years. At age 26, I read Uris's MILA 18. That is the story of the Warsaw Ghetto during WWII. I finished that book, picked up the phone and made arrangements to move to Israel that summer, study Hebrew at an Ulpan, and work in Israel. I spent 2 years there before returning to Connecticut and my life here in the US.

    I have read many wonderful authors, heard many family stories, and experienced many other influences and eye-opening works over the years. But nothing has been as specifically influential as that one book.

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    1. It sounds like a very impactful book and a very meaningful journey. I'm also sad there are "times" when our personal stories might not be welcome. Thank you for sharing yours.

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    2. SO honored to hear this, Judy. ANd you took action on your inspiration..which is even more inspiring.

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  24. I would really like to know what happened to my sister when she basically fell off the face of the earth for about 20 years. We have re-established contact but it feels very tenouous and fragile so I don’t want to flat out ask her. I’ve made up a lot of different scenarios in my head over the years.

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    1. I commend your sensitivity and patience. Someday, she may start to share...

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    2. Ohhhh..you are so thoughtful to be so careful and caring...

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  25. Oh, so intriguing!

    Family stories - there was one great mystery in my family that was resolved by the advent or the internet. My grandfather would never, ever, talk about his life before he came to the states. Turned out he was a minor royal who got another minor royal's wife in a family way and was - yes indeed - exiled. This was before the turn of the 20th century. He came over first class on a steamer which explained why we never found record of his arrival in the Ellis Island files - then, because he loved horses, he decided to be a cowboy and moved to Wyoming. He married, had a family, lost his wife, and his son was taken from him because he was foreign. He decided to return to Bavaria, but when he arrived in NYC he met my grandmother and the rest is history. I keep telling myself I need to have a DNA test done. I'd like to see if I can find a history of the son who was taken.

    The Little Prince shaped much of my thinking, and The Secret Garden. I need to re-read both.

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    1. Wow! You definitely need to learn more. How fascinating and also sad in so many ways. I too loved The Secret Garden.

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    2. Oh, that would be so fascinating..but I always think--you can't un-know it. But it doesn't make it go away. ANd maybe you have a title?

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    3. True, and I think if I do find relatives of my long lost uncle that it would be a big decision what to do about it. With emotions running as high as they seemed to be, it is unlikely that my uncle, or his descendants, would have any knowledge of his birth father. Could come as quite the shock.

      Alas, Hank, I believe all my titles are on my books :)

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  26. Thank you for showing the gorgeous photo! Historical mysteries/thrillers are fun and I love to read them!

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    1. I'm delighted. I hope you give The Berlin Letters a try. Thank you.

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    2. I do too. They all look so happy and glamorous.

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  27. Welcome, Katherine! What a fascinating story. I love the photo of your grandmother and great aunts. Funnily, two friends and I were just talking on Sunday about what we wished we could ask grandparents who are now gone. So many untold stories... I can't wait to read The Berlin Letters!

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    1. Thank you so much. I hope you love The Berlin Letters. I, too, wish I'd asked more questions. So many more questions.

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    2. Yes, I inherited photos of people I have no idea who are--and there is completely no one to ask.

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  28. Hi Kathy! I was caught up on all your books until The Berlin Letters came out. Something to look forward to reading! My family seemed to be gifted when it came to keeping secrets. Such as why my Swedish grandfather divorced his wife. They never told us kids anything, probably because we were blabbermouths!

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    1. Parents always think they know best...

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    2. So glad you've read so much -- thanks! I hope you enjoy The Berlin Letters. And, I agree, parents tend to underestimate the kids. We can keep secrets. ;)

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  29. This novel sonds amazing, Katherine. I can't wai tto read it and my code breaker/spy loving husband is excited, too.
    Family history is so inspirational. My mom recently uncovered a letter from one family member to another in Ireland in the late 1800's that informed the recipient of the letter that they would never be happy in the house they'd just built because they'd built it on a faery crossing -- and they never were. Hmm.

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    1. There's a story in there!!! Also... Thanks. I hope you both thoroughly enjoy The Berlin Letters.

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    2. WOW. And of course, that's your next book. I hope I hope...

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  30. My mother in law was part of a group of women who called themselves The Jolly Girls. They met regularly to play bridge and gossip.

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    1. I can imagine a lot of laughter too. I hope they loved that group.

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    2. My husband and I are 75 so you can do the math. They ladies loved to be "naughty".

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  31. Family history is fascinating and daunting. Although my DNA results did not reveal any startling facts, there are untold stories that I wish I could travel back in time for the human experiences my ancestors experienced!

    Your book sounds compelling!! Hoping to read it. Thanks for making us aware.
    (Heather Soper)

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    1. That would be fun! Books give us a little taste of that, I think. Thanks for the compliment for The Berlin Letters.

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  32. When I was young I didn't appreciate learning about the lives of my grandparents! I wish I had asked questions! My grandfather came to America from Denmark and I am sure he had lots of stories to tell!

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    1. I agree. I didn't ask either. Part of it, I think, is we don't realize what little time we have with our grandparents.

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  33. Yes, I love Katherine and her books! I had the pleasure of meeting and talking with her at a book event on the Washington Coast last July-she is a delight!

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    1. Thank you so much, Susie! What a fun weekend that was! Great to hear from you.

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