JENN McKINLAY: Recently, my Instagram feed was full of the debate of man vs bear. For those of you who missed it, let me sum up. The question was if a woman was alone in the woods would she rather come across a strange man or a bear, meaning would she feel safer with a strange man or a bear?
Pic from the CBC article: How the 'man vs. bear' trend exposes troubling issues (Hint: It's not about the bear) |
As you can imagine there were many many many opinions, some very strong, about this topic but that’s not why I’m writing this post.
Pic from Life Hacker Australia article: The Man or Bear Question: Why It’s Capturing the Internet’s Attention Right Now |
I’m writing it because I posed the question to several of my female friends and every single one of them said they’d choose the strange man, which blew my mind because I’d choose the bear. Deeper analysis leads me to believe our different choices come from the quality of the adult male role models in our formative years, but that, too, is a post for another day.
CNN: Man or bear? A viral question has spawned scary responses
Now when I flipped the question and asked, “Okay, you walk downstairs to your kitchen for breakfast and there’s a strange man seated at the counter or a bear foraging in your refrigerator, which do you choose?” They all said bear. Which made me realize that this entire conversation speaks to the importance of setting! |
A few books/series where I believe the setting is as important as the main characters are Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens, Adventures of Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain, James Lee Burke’s Dave Robicheaux series, as well as, Raymond Chandler’s Philip Marlowe’s Los Angeles.
What about you, Reds? What are some of the books where you believe the setting was as vital to the story as the characters? And just for the heck of it, strange man or wild bear in the woods? Strange man or wild bear in your house?
HALLIE EPHRON: And I wanted to talk about “the man or the bear”! What kind of bear? It makes a difference. What kind of man??? That makes a difference, too. We could talk wardrobe…
But addressing the question: Where’s the bear? And does setting make a difference. OMG yes!
Looking for creepy? You can’t do better than the deep South of Joe R. Lansdale’s EDGE OF DARK WATER. Or cold in Julia’s Adirondacks in winter (I read IN THE BLEAK MIDWINTER huddled in a blanket.) Or Leonia Swann’s verdant Irish countryside where a flock of sheep come upon their dead shepherd, George, in THREE BAGS FULL. Or Ruth Rendell’s Notting Hill in PORTOBELLO.
HANK PHILLIPPI RYAN: Wait, in the woods? A bear, definitely. You’d just run. Or whatever you’d do. And is the bear attacking you, or just..over there?
A strange man not in a ranger outfit would terrify me.
And if I saw a bear in the kitchen, I’d just go back upstairs. And call Bear 911.
A man is much scarier–they have a different kind of intentions.
I kinda think it’s less setting and more…motivation.
And this is hilarious.
JULIA SPENCER-FLEMING: We had this discussion during the family Zoom call. The girls and I agreed “bear in the woods” instead of “strange man in the woods,” but Spencer, the one man, began to ask, “What if it was an angry mother bear?” and somehow the conversation devolved into what the best ways to fight a bear might be.
As for the kitchen scenario, I’d rather see a man in the house - I figure I have a chance of talking him down, a la, Queen Elizabeth when she woke up in her bedroom with that strange man there. Plus, my Shih tzus might scare him off, where they’d probably get squashed by a bear.
Books where the locale is absolutely central? I’ll go back to my two most important early influences: Margaret Maron’s BOOTLEGGERS DAUGHTER series, and Archer Mayor’s Joe Gunther series. The former is so steeped in North Carolina, you can smell the curing tobacco and BBQ. The latter is utterly evocative of Vermont - I’ve said a reader could drive all across the state, navigating solely from Mayor’s books.
RHYS BOWEN: There are so many variables in these decisions. If the strange man looks like a fellow hiker with backpack, and is walking purposefully up the trail I’d be happy to say good morning and pass him. If I find him following me or sitting looking ‘strange’ then I’d not be happy. Clare tells me that this discussion has been going on for a long time on social media with women concerned that they will not be believed or be arrested if they fight back against a man. If they kill a bear nobody minds.
In my kitchen, definitely the bear. I’d make sure it has an easy exit then make a big noise to scare it off if it’s a black bear. A grizzly? I’d retreat until it had gone. Any my insurance would cover the damage.
Locale in books is so important to me. Think Prince of Tides. The locale was the story. IN my Constable Evans series the mountains play a big part in every plot.
LUCY BURDETTE: On the bear subject, definitely prefer to meet the bear rather than the man. According to Rhys Bown in the latest Molly Murphy book, all you have to do is make yourself look as big as possible and make a lot of noise. (Or am I hallucinating the bear in your book, Rhys?)
Setting: Kent Krueger is a master at this, both in series and standalones. Ditto for CJ Box’s Wyoming. And it seems like the Icelandic authors are amazing at writing setting, which is NO surprise, given how important that cold and treacherous landscape is.
Okay, Readers, your turn. What books have a setting that you felt were as important as the story? And man or bear? If you're a dude, the same question applies (I just watched a documentary on serial killer Gacy and men are at risk, too, which is something I don't think we acknowledge enough).
Books where the setting is as important as the story? I agree with Hallie about Julia’s books and with Julia bout Archer Mayor’s Joe Gunther series. I’d add Orson Scott Card’s ENDER’S GAME . . . C.S. Lewis’s THE CHRONICLES OF NARNIA . . .
ReplyDeleteAnd, I’ll take the bear . . . .
The Chronicles of Narnia! One of the many books/series that lured me into beign a writer.
DeleteI have missed this debate entirely! When I started reading the Reds responses, I thought, wait - have you never walked in the woods? There are strange men everywhere. Then I got to Rhys's - strange man hiking - fine. Lurker following me? Not fine.
ReplyDeleteBut I'd still rather face a human than a bear outdoors. An article in the Boston Globe yesterday told the story of a man who was attacked by a mama bear protecting her cub. Terrifying. But in my kitchen, sure, bear is better. They don't have guns. I'll sneak out the front door with my cell phone, make sure the kitchen door is ajar, and call for help or wait (from a distance) for the animal to leave.
Along with Julia's Adirondacks, I'll vote for Lucy's Key West, Barb Ross's Maine harbor town, and Debs's London - those stories couldn't be set anywhere else and I always feel like I am right there. As Lucy said in the happy hour, the book she set in Scotland is her least popular!
Oh, I am so sorry I missed the Zoom! Now I have to ask Lucy about her plans to have her Key West characters travel again. No?
DeleteI missed Zoom too. No notice? Or am I somehow “off the list”? Elisabeth
DeleteI'll take the bear. For series where the setting is important - Maine Clambake series by Barbara Ross, Cajun Country series by Ellen Byron, Cozy Capers Book Group by Maddie Day, Ruth Galloway series by Elly Griffiths to name a few
ReplyDeleteThanks, Dru! Agree about Ellen's Cajun stories.
DeleteEllen crushes the Cajun setting - so good!
DeleteI agree that setting is everything in this man v. bear question. Up here in the ADKs one is quite likely to come across both a strange man AND a bear on any hike in the woods. Because I have known mostly great men, and spent my adult life teaching many large, boisterous boys, I would not tend to be nervous of the man; I would tend to be nervous of the bear, but calming my heart I would just watch it out of sight. (We only have black bears, which are usually benign.)
ReplyDeleteI must say, though, that these days with the destabilization of norms, steep rise in the number of unsocialized males, and proliferation of guns and drugs, I SHOULD be more nervous of the man. I often look at photos of younger men (late 30s etc.) published in the paper, arrested for drug trafficking, and thinking, "Gosh, I would have trusted him."
As for setting, in my youth I came across the Bennett's Island novels of Elisabeth Ogilvie, set 25 miles off the coast of Maine, and though I'll never bait a lobster trap or row a dory among the swells, I've never forgotten her brilliant, beautifully evocative depiction of that life. (Selden)
Selden, I'm going to have to look for the Bennett's Island books! You make excellent points about how society has changed.
DeleteMy favorite book is High Tide at Noon-Elizabeth Ogilvie-I can only read it at our cottage in ME
DeleteAnon, I love all the original three TIDE books. I have never had the pleasure of a cottage in Maine, but I've lived in a house without running water and electricity and all those details of Ogilvie's are SO ACCURATE, the ocean and rocks and birds just take me over the top with happiness.
DeleteHA HA, I also missed seeing any of this man vs bear debate online!
ReplyDeleteSince I am usually hiking/walking alone in the woods, I prefer the bear vs a strange man, especially if he doesn't look like a fellow hiker! Same answer for dealing with a bear indoors.
True story...a baby black bear climbed a tree almost directly behind my ByWard Market apartment building. Many people wondered how the bear managed to cross several busy streets & make it into the heart of Ottawa's historic downtown? Fortunately, animal control was able to tranquilize the bear and take him back to the Quebec side of the river.
As for setting, top pick would be Ragnar Jonassan's books, especially those set in remote parts of Iceland in the dead of winter.
Oh, yes, the Icelandic authors do settings like no other. Much like your bear story, when we were in TN a bear tried to climb into my brother-in-law's rented minivan. The door was open since they were packing it. BIL hit the alarm on his fob and the bear left but it was dicey for a moment.
DeleteGreat topic! I think in the woods, it would depend on the man and it would depend on the bear. A furtive shifty-looking man would scare me to death. Well, so would the bear, but if the distance were great enough I would quietly back away and try not to look fun to chase. (Hmm. I guess you could say the same about the man.) In the house, definitely I'd prefer the bear if I could close the door on it and call the park service.
ReplyDeleteAs for books where I think setting is superb: Oh, so many, but I'm really enamored of M. C. Beaton's Hamish Macbeath series, where I feel like I know that part of Scotland now. (And I have never been to Scotland.) And I'd agree with Jenn McKinley about Raymond Chandler’s Philip Marlowe’s Los Angeles. In one line, Chandler can conjure it up. Amazing.
Circumstances are soooo important, Elizabeth. Also, I love MC Beaton.
DeleteI have seen the impassioned debate of man vs bear and having been an avid hiker, I'd have to say, it depends. My first consideration would be proximity of subject and type of bear. My second would be what it (man or bear) was doing. My third would be, "Why the heck am I alone out here?"
ReplyDeleteI agree with many of the settings and authors. Ryan Steck's new series puts you out in pretty rugged territory. Longmire is also set out in wild country. As for Los Angeles, Michael Connelly has taken us all over L.A. and not much is creepier than some of his villains and his settings.
LOL - Why the heck am I alone here? Valid question!
DeleteThat is a very good question. Maybe that should be the topic rather than bear or man.
DeleteBooks? Julia's series of course. And Craig Johnson's.
ReplyDeleteAs for man or bear? In my house, I'd rather find a bear, provided I had Kensi safe with me. Don't mess with my cat, no matter what kind of creature you are. In the woods, I don't know... As has been mentioned, it depends on the type of bear and the vibes I get from the man. Let's say creepy man vs. angry bear, I'd go with the bear.
Oh, yes, my critters must be safe first!
DeleteI have to say the whole debate about man vs. bear is unnecessarily adding to our misery. If you think of the number of times you see men you don't know (parking lots anyone? Walking city streets early in the morning as I do) and compare it to the number of times you see bears,--as Megan McArdle (with whom I often disagree) said in the Washington Post, the math is off. https://wapo.st/4eiNJks. As someone who hikes a lot in the woods, sometimes alone, I would definitely rather come face to face with a man I don't know. In my kitchen, not so much.
ReplyDeleteSettings: Donna Leon's books in Venice, Julia's in Maine, Lucy's in Key West, Jesmyn Ward's books set in Mississippi's gulf coast, Krueger's Minnesota.
I like to think that dialogues like this - when done respectfully - enlighten people to the struggles they themselves don't have to contend with - as in my hooligans, who are gym rats and on the large side, would never think twice about being vulnerable to a strange man or woman and in H2's case he probably thinks he can take the bear. I like to think these discussions help us learn empathy - of course, that's reliant upon people actually listening to each other, which seems to be the larger issue, IMHO.
DeleteBear, unless it's a grizzly bear. And speaking of bears, WK Krueger's books. Setting as a major character: Ann Cleeves, JL Burke, Dennis Lehane, and PD James, especially DEVICES AND DESIRES.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely Cleeves, especially the Shetland series.
DeleteLehane does make his setting pivotal to the story. Agreed.
DeleteI agree with Judy Singer - the 3rd question should be (in the woods), "Why am I alone out here ...?"
ReplyDeleteLOL!
DeleteVery interesting , both the questions and the comments. I live in the woods, so even though I have not seen one here, only heard about it, I wouldn't be surprised or afraid to see a bear. A strange man in my woods would be a hole different matter. Yesterday, I glanced up at my birdfeeder as I often do and saw a huge something coming around the corner. It was unbelievably a cow! There are no cows within a couple of miles from here. By the time I got my camera ready 2 more had shown up! No idea where they came from. The black one came to my window and licked it with his big ole tongue! Then they turned and walked away, through the woods. This morning I had a deer, just standing there and posing, before she turned off through the woods.
ReplyDeleteI can't even imagine a strange man or a bear in my kitchen! Especially now that I have no dog and the cats would run and hide.
Both Deb's books and Julia's books depend so much on their settings. As do the Tahoe books by Todd Borg. There are many others as well; I just can't think of them right now. (The idea of a strange man or a bear in my kitchen has me a bit distracted!)
So, what you're saying is Man or bear or cow? I'll take the cow! LOL. How interesting. If you ever discover where the cows came from, do let us know!
DeleteHa ha. As someone who kept cattle for twenty years, the image a cow licking the window is very endearing to me. They can be very curious. (Selden)
DeleteMy father-in-law was an inveterate fisherman, and he had "honey holes" he liked to fish in lots of places, including farms. Once he parked his car for several hours while he fished the creek, and came back to his car smeared all over from the cows licking the road salt off of it.
DeleteJudi, did you take pictures of the cows? If you send those to your local or regional animal control, they might be able to locate the farmer. What a hoot.
DeleteI live in the suburbs and frequently see bears, even in my own backyard.
I did get some pictures but they are through the screen so not the best. Plus, the cows were moving. Unfortunately I did not get a very good shot of the black one with his huge tongue on the window.
DeleteThe first thing that I thought is how much of this debate is dependent on where you grew up and where you live. Those of us who are natives of Cape Breton or Newfoundland would take no notice of a man walking about anywhere, and would probably offer a cup of tea and a chat of who’s your father? Around here, you are not likely to encounter a bear, but had you asked me about any kind of snake even though ours are harmless garden snakes – just watch me run!
ReplyDeleteThat being said, since I am not a city person, even the idea of going out after dark terrifies me, and don’t even consider asking me to do it alone.
Place that is a part of the book – many of those already mentioned but top of the list is Three Pines of Louise Penny. Her place, Quebec politics and the weather are all a big part of the story. Also if you have not read her, read Vicki Delaney’s Gold Rush series for the Yukon, and the Molly series for Canada’s RCMP.
LOVED Vicki's Gold Rush series - excellent recommendation. Also, yes, at our cottage in Nova Scotia there are strange men all the time but they always have loads of fishing gear (our cottage is on the beach with a trout stream) and are very pleasant to chat with.
DeleteAnon, I, too, hadn’t heard of the Klondike series. I have read all of the library lighthouse series. — Pat S
DeleteMy middle daughter, once a nationally ranked climber, has hitchhiked in Thailand, hiked and camped alone in more places than her wary mother knows (a la the book WILD), and is a petite but wiry 39-year old. I was worried enough already, and then the other day I read about a renowned male climber who was just convicted of raping at least three women climbers in Yosemite. So bear.
ReplyDeleteWe get a lot of critters in our landscape, both here and at our Kentucky place. Coyotes, foxes, raccoons, skunks, possums at both places, plus there have been bobcat sightings in Kentucky, including on the front porch of our house there. Recently, black bear have been increasingly spreading their range into that part of Kentucky, and while blackberry picking I try to be mindful of what might happen if I surprise one, so I try to make a lot of noise. But a strange man coming onto my porch, down 1/2-mile long driveway, and me alone? Nope, nope, nope. A bear or bobcat or coyote will not break into my house. Even when we were on safari in Africa, with lions and hippos and baboons just on the other side of the canvas, would I be as scared as in the man on porch situation.
Atmosphere/setting: Gosh, yes, on Three Pines, Shetland, Venice, et al. I will add the many vividly rendered settings in the Outlander series, and the Harry Potter books.
Karen, my husband is a lifelong climber (though only a boulderer now at 72) and I just read him the Outside magazine story, "How Did This Climber Get Away with So Much for So Long?", from January, that gives the chilling background on this case. I came into contact with the climbing culture through my husband in the early 80s. It was then (though my husband was not) extremely misogynistic... but so was so much of our culture then, so it didn't stand out to me. Still, to read how famous climbers excused this man because he "put up" great routes is horrifying.
DeleteKaren, hate to break your “never break in” safety theory. Bears do…open unlocked doors, tear screens, smash glass. Be cautious. Elisabeth
DeleteKaren, definitely the Harry Potter series. I love Hogwart's Castle and the 9 3/4 underground station in London, the large eating room really comes to life and I felt like I was a student at Oxford or Cambridge. I took my 4 grandkids (who all love HP) to the Harry Potter World at Universal Studios. It is worth a trip for anyone who likes HP
Deletehttps://www.universalstudioshollywood.com/web/en/us/things-to-do/lands/the-wizarding-world-of-harry-potter
DeleteYes, Anon, but a black bear on the porch isn't going to break down the door to get to a human being on the other side.
DeleteI've been married to a wildlife photographer --who filmed grizzlies--for 42 years. I'm not stupid.
I had no idea there was such ick happening in professional climbing. :(
DeleteI live in a small-town area of northern Ohio, yet I'd pick the bear in the woods. I no longer walk through our wooded parks alone because of a stranger in the woods. He stood at the top of an incline and watched silently as I crossed the lower part of the trail, two little boys in tow. Then he sent his dogs in a sweep after us. We made it back up the trail whence we had come, then ran for the parking lot and car, locking the doors as soon as I got them inside. The second incident occurred to a nephew. He and a friend were in the woods on private property, 'deer hunting.' (My nephew talks constantly, so they actually had little chance of seeing a deer). A stranger showed up and when they informed him that he was on private property, he attacked them with a large knife. So, I'll take the bear! In my kitchen as well. The cats would hide and the dog, who is elderly and sleeps most of the time, blends in with his blanket--perfect camouflage.
ReplyDeleteMany of my favorite authors whose settings are a major part of their work have already been mentioned. I'll add Cara Black for Paris, and keeping with a French theme, M.L. Longsworth's books set in Aix-en-Provence and Jean-Luc Bannalec 's books set in Brittany.
Anon Flora here, thanks blogger!
DeleteFLORA: I totally agree with your French-themed authors. I should have thought of Cara's books since the latest Aimee Leduc book is stacked on my immediate TBR pile (library book). Those books could only occur in one of Paris' arrondissements!
Deletein addition to Black, Longsworth and Bannalec's books set in France I also enjoy Martin Walker's Bruno Chief of Police set in the Dordogne and Periogord area. He also talks in grea detail about the food in the area and the meals he makes. Yum and more Yum
DeleteThose stories are chilling, Flora!
DeleteFrom Celia: OK, I’m fessing up, Instagram is a mystery to me. Currently there is a black bear in the Hood, but he hasn’t headed to our side of the lake and hiking isn’t high on my list. But for books atmosphere can’t be all so I’ll mention LJ Ross’s Northumberland, Dana Stabanow’s Alaska, as well as an old old fav of mine for his research and detail of the British racing scene, Dick Francis, truly the master.
ReplyDeleteMan or bear: it depends on the time of year and scent: if it is Spring and the bear is very skinny, I would take the man, if Autumn and the bear is full the bear is okay. In my house if the bear is wearing a clown hat and roller skates, I would assume the man was the trainer. Both could leave. On to scent. If the man smelled unwashed, disheveled I would be cautious, ~ could be lost hiker, could be hermit, could be dangerous. If the man made eye contact, then maybe okay, especially if he followed hiking etiquette. Man in house? would have to have either a weapon or a badge. Either way would be frightening. Hmm obviously I have wanted to talk about this.
ReplyDeleteSettings. IMHO all the JRW's do settings well. You all include weather as part of the setting, bringing factual events into the rise and fall of the emotional themes.(i.e Lucy with her hurricane) For past authors, I vote for Barbara Cartland who seemed to write scenery rather than plot; Elizabeth Peters who took me to Victorian Egypt; Walter Mosley who brought me to a world I otherwise would have never known; Nick Petrie who does understand setting leads to thrilling moments; and, oh my, Dana Stabenow ,Paige Shelton, and Keenan Powell who love and understand Alaska.
From Diana: Barbara Cartland did wrote scenery more than the plot in her stories, Coralee. And her paragraphs were often short. I agree with you about all of the JRW authors doing settings well.
DeleteFrom Diana: Great post today. My answer regarding man va bear - What kind of man? What kind of bear ? A mom bear protecting her cub? A baby bear ? Depends on what the answers to these questions are….
ReplyDeleteSpeaking of setting, the Constable Evan stories set in Welsh mountains is a setting that I love. Right now I am reading THE COMFORT OF GHOSTS by Jacqueline Winspear and love the various settings. Just finished Jenn’s LOVE AT FIRST BOOK with the setting in an Irish bookshop. And I am fascinated by the settings in Agatha Christie mysteries.
Yes! ALL of the JRW authors do settings beautifully.
Thanks for the nod, Diana. I tried really hard to capture Ireland.
DeleteThis reminds me of the young woman with a dog who was out walking alone on a trail when she came across a black man who had been bird watching. She went crazy for no reason, nearly strangled her dog and called 911 on him.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I'd like a definition of what is considered a "strange man". And what kind of bear.
But, I think the odds of a bear attack vs an attack by a strange man are more rare with the bear attack. So I'd go with the bear. But, Hmm I'd have to Google this actually.
As far as bear or stranger in my kitchen, either way I'd quietly go back upstairs and call the police.
Many of our JRW use specific locations. Rhys' England, Debs' London, Lucy Burdette's Key West is very specific and doesn't set the mood but certainly brings fun back memories of when I was a tourist there.
John Berendt's Midnight in the Garden of Good & Evil in the Savannah, GA area.
Ann Cleeves books in the north of England and Shetland,
Many cozy mystery stories are set in Paris and the south of France. But, another important cozy mystery location is centered more on places a bookstore, tea or coffee shop, B&B, etc.
Agatha Christies quaint country villages,
I remember that story. It was Central Park! What did she expect? To be alone in a city park? So mental.
DeleteI should clarify about Lucy's location in KW - by doesn't set the mood but it does bring the town alive with the characters and the famous locations. Looking forward to #14 Lucy!
ReplyDeleteJudy asked my question first - why would I walk alone in the woods? Why would I walk alone in a large park? Why would I walk alone in a strange city or neighborhood? Or is the question; why am I walking? I drive Interstate 5 at least once a year, alone. I look for busy gas stations and roadside rest areas. I carry my phone. No strange men in my kitchen please. And if there is a bear? Which window is open? How? Close bedroom door and call police. Or go out other door and call the police. They can call animal control.
ReplyDeleteAll good questions, Deana!
DeleteI had to get off Instagram because I kept getting notices of people following me and I didn't know who they were and I found that creepy. Therefore I have missed the bear versus man problem,. For over twenty years we had a home in the North Carolina mountains with bears abounding. They had a regular path up the side of our house and were often seen on our deck. Several of our neighbors found one in their kitchen. One poor woman, living alone, heard a noise and came naked out of her shower to find a mama and cubs in her kitchen. They had broken into her garage where she kept her dog food and then into the unlocked kitchen door. They ,especially the cubs, look adorable but are so destructive! This morning on the radio I heard a commentator from the state (Georgia) warning people about the bears, not only in the mountains but also in middle GA and around the swamp. That said, I would probably rather face a bear in either circumstance than an unknown man.
ReplyDeleteAll of the Reds use settings well. I could find anywhere in Julia's Millers Kill and Deborah' London. Dana Stabenow has introduced me to Alaska and now in her Isis books, to Alexandria. Setting is very important to me . Thanks Atlanta
I love Stabenow's Alaska books - brilliant!
DeleteI didn’t know about the man/Bear conversation. I wouldn’t go into the woods alone! There are some wooded walking trails near me that I would love to walk on, but I’m not going unless I can get a friend to come with me! If a strange man showed up in my kitchen I would sneak outside with my phone and call 911!
ReplyDeleteOne of my sisters, who lives in northern Connecticut, frequently has bears in her backyard. They’re all over her neighborhood, in fact. As I left her house to come home after my last visit in April, there was a bear passing through their backyard and heading towards the driveway. I missed it entirely. She saw the bear through her kitchen window as I was driving away.
My other sister is in NJ, in an urban/suburban area. Her backyard abuts a Greenbelt. Several years ago the police, wearing bullet-proof vests and with weapons, etc, came running through her house, told the family to stay inside, and then ran out to her backyard. There was a man in camo gear, and holding a crossbow, sitting in a tree at the end of the backyard. (To me, that’s sort of a combination of strange man in the woods AND too close to the kitchen!) Well, he said he was a deerhunter, and he accessed the area through a city park that’s behind the Greenbelt. He “mistakenly” thought hunting was allowed there. A neighbor had seen him sand called 911. There are an awful lot of deer there all the time. She stopped keeping a garden a long time ago because the deer got into everything.
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Oh, wow, that terrifying. The man not the bear.
DeleteI live in the woods. Should I recuse myself?
ReplyDeleteActually, the answer is it depends - Our bears are black and they can get aggressive especially if they're with their young. The ones I have happened on have not been interested in me, though. After all, we are loud and to them, we smell bad. Now if I came upon a man...if he looked lost, or like a hiker/backpacker - well, I'd say hi and pass by, keeping my guard up until I was sure he was somewhere else. In my kitchen - hum, definitely prefer the bear, but think of the mess!
Kait, since you live “in the woods”, can you answer the age old question: does a bear …..? :-). — Pat S
DeleteFair follow up questions!
DeleteOne of the faults of the original question is the fact you're a woman alone in the woods. It might be my age, but every hiker I know, male and female, doesn't go out alone. Of course, I may just know lots of sensible people; there are enough idjits who get lost on Mount Washington, unprepared for the weather, to prove not everyone follows safe trail protocols.
ReplyDeleteI agree I think that is the question that should be asked Julia. In California we have lots of attacks by the large wild cats which often end tragically. Of course, another reason to be with a partner is snake bites or falls, if you have someone with you, they can call for or render help.
DeleteAnd never, never swim alone. If you are at a beach and by yourself make sure the beach has a life guard.
That's an excellent point, Julia.
DeleteIn AZ sooooo many people hike alone. My boss (a librarian) hiked all 800 trail miles, mostly alone, including camping out at night. And she's is not a survivalist or anything - she is very much an almost 70 something mom type.
DeletePerhaps I’m strongly influenced by my 2 years on Kodiak Island or the large animal vet who told “I never work on bears, they are not predictable”. Man every time for me. Not sure about setting for stories. Happy Monday, all. Elisabeth
ReplyDeleteOh, that's good to know.
DeleteMy husband is a lawyer and is reviewing a case on a possible appeal that involves a string of home invasions. One case involved some men who broke into a very, very large house that the family's teenage daughter was in the backyard pool area alone. She later said she heard a noise that sounded like people inside the house but ignored it. Apparently she was more interested in lounging by the pool. She didn't call the police or tell her mother when she came home. It wasn't until the mom went upstairs and couldn't find her tablet. The daughter said we might have been robbed. Very weird indeed!!
ReplyDeleteAh! That girl got very lucky.
DeleteHow about a man in a bear suit? With bears the time of year may make a difference. As others have mentioned, in the spring with a bear coming out of hibernation or a mother with cubs would be a lot more dangerous. In the last few years bears have been coming increasingly closer to well populated cities and towns in this area (MA). A number of times they have been spotted in trees. They also tend to be younger and not as aggressive as the adults.
ReplyDeleteAs for man vs bear, I would rather not encounter either in the woods, but it would also depend on what the man looked like. If it is a large forest I would not be walking alone. It can also depend on the time of day. If I am out at night I probably wouldn’t encounter a bear, but I might be suspicious of a man by himself.
I have been reading a number of historical books which take place in London during WW 2.
They have all given a sense of time and place when they describe the raids with the sound of the planes and the destruction of the bombs, the blackouts and trying to navigate dark streets and the rationing of all sorts of food and materials. Also the people leaving their homes in the morning and not knowing what they would find, if anything was still standing, when they came home.
Any of the Sherlock Holmes books certainly describe nineteenth century London.
Most of the books I have read which take place in the south or in foreign cities seem to be particularly good with providing descriptions of the people and the places where the stories occur.
I just finished Jacqueline Winspear’s memoir about growing up in the countryside of England. I could picture the landscape and the buildings and people she encountered as a child.
Man in a bear suit! Love the way you spun it on its head.
DeleteMan or Bear? Probably an unknown man, but hopefully not a strange one. Although I would never be alone in the woods, because I am overly cautious like that. In my kitchen? I’d prefer a small bear.
ReplyDeleteAs for settings, I’m all in on the importance of settings. For me, a good setting is not more important than the characters, but is a character. Right in this group, Rhys’ Evan Evans’ mountain setting is integral to the story, Deborah’s settings feature strongly in her books; there’s Lucy’s Key West, and Julia’s Adirondacks. I agree when it comes to Where the Crawdads Sing, Huck Finn, and The Prince of Tides (which led me to read other Low Country authors).
I like the way you said "small bear". Agreed!!!
DeleteOh, oh, oh...read Christine Carbo's THE WILD INSIDE for a visit to Glacier National Park, terrifying bears and a really good mystery. Her other books are great, too!
ReplyDeleteJenn, the writer conference you attended with Christie looked like loads of fun. Did you know those writers previously?
I knew a few of them - Lori Wilde and Sonali Dev, particularly, but the rest are all new best friends, which is the beauty of these gatherings.
DeleteI will take a man over a bear every single time in the woods. Bears are unpredictable. My brother has a scary story about one. Men? Maybe I'm being naive, but I think Rhys hit it on the head. I'm picturing a man who is out hiking and enjoying nature like me. Maybe that's why this entire discussion bothered me so much. It felt like a slap in the face to all men. Maybe if we had pictures to go off of, I'd feel differently on this one.
ReplyDeleteIn my kitchen? Neither. A man or a bear there would be deadly. Then again, I have a small condo with nowhere really to go.
There are so many books where the setting is important. I'm blanking on some of my favorite examples right now, but I do love it when it is a story that could only take place in that time and place. Even if it just bringing the setting to life, I love it when authors do a good job of making me feel like I am there.
Mark, I feel like I must respond because good and kind men as well as misogynists are questioning this debate and feeling uncomfortable about the topic. I am an elderly woman and I have seen a lot in my lifetime. There is a valid reason for this debate and it isn't just the woods where a woman alone must use caution. You may see gun violence taking young men's lives when you watch the news. But if you pay attention, it is usually a man who takes the life of a woman, or assaults her. Rapes happen on college campuses, when women are roofied in bars, at house parties in mansions, in cities and suburbs, and yes, in the woods. All the time. So, don't feel hurt by this debate. Rather, resolve to make the world safer for women by speaking up if someone dares to say, "It was because of her dress, or her walk or her voice." Or, "She was asking for it." Be that guy who says, "There is no excuse for abusing women."
DeleteI think good men find bad men inconceivable, which is what makes them good. :)
DeleteI'm with Rhys and Edith on man in the woods: Hiking and smiling? No problem. Lurking? No way. But I wouldn't take the bear in any case, unless that bear is a good ways away and happy. Bears move fast, people. I do not.
ReplyDeleteIn my kitchen? Definitely the bear. Any damaged caused by a foraging bear is what homeowner's insurance is for. But Koda is not going to be a threat in either case, he's too chill.
You've all mentioned some great settings. I'd add Annette Dashofy as someone who does great settings.
Agreed!
DeleteIn the great outdoors I'd rather meet a man than a bear. The idea of a bear in the wild scares the bejeesus out of me! At any rate, I wouldn't be hiking alone, nor would I be the throw down person so the other could outrun the bear. As for home, I'd rather a bear be the intruder than a man. The bear would be looking for food, not me or goods. As for atmosphere, so many authors do it well. Charles Finch, Charles Todd, Catriona McPherson with Dandy Gilver, Amanda Stevens in her Graveyard Queen series.
ReplyDeleteI'm amazed by how many women hike alone - my former boss did the entire 800 miles AZ trail by herself and she's in her 60's!
DeleteMy first thought was that I wouldn't be out hiking in the woods alone! So many great examples of setting, but the first thing that popped into my mind was our Lucy's Key West books. I always feel like I'm there.
ReplyDeleteYes! Lucy takes us all with her when she writes about it!
DeleteThe thing that I learned about writing setting, early on, is that it needs to be *filtered* through the narrator. A dark warehouse is only spooky if the narrator doesn't usually go there, or if the last time she was there it was well lit and throbbing with activity and this time it's frigid and the lights don't work. Or she had a scary encounter last time she was in the warehouse... You'd write it differently if she's taking refuge there from something scary *outside* the warehouse. Filter!
ReplyDeleteBrilliant, Hallie!
DeleteMaybe it has to do with where I live, but I'd choose to walk by a man I didn't know rather than a bear. As for settings, Julia, you had me when you said Margaret Maron. I used to live in North Carolina, and her books are so authentic. Martin Walker's Dordogne and Donna Leon's Venice. But there are SO many more mystery writers who do a fabulous job with setting.
ReplyDeleteSo true. So many great settings.
DeleteWhile I thought the initial question, when I first heard it, was interesting, but I see from Mark’s comment that I should be more considerate of men’s feelings about the question to begin with. Having said that, I’m bear all the way. (Aside: when I was six years old we drove cross country from Detroit, where we’d picked up our brand new station wagon. We went to Yellowstone for a visit and a too-accustomed-to-people bear came up to our car. My mom had been trying to take a picture of it when it was across the street and had the window down. As the bear started to approach the car, my mom retreated to my dad’s lap while he’s yelling for her to roll up the window. She did get it rolled up in time and the bear left paw and nose prints on the window. All the way back to California, my mom wouldn’t allow any gas station attendants to wash that window so she could show our neighbors!)
ReplyDeleteBooks whose settings I think help make the story: Louise Penny’s Three Pines, Ann Cleeves’ Shetland, Deb’s’ Kincaid/James series, Julia’s Fergusson/Van Alstyne series and probably many more. — Pat S
I love your mom! That's a hoot!
DeleteWell, I'll just pass on the question, but highly recommend a book I just finished reading, Eight Bears, by Gloria Dickie. Fascinating natural history of the 8 bear species remaining in the world, and how dangerous they are to us, and we to them, and how they're all threatened, one way or another. Chilling and amazing.
ReplyDeleteOh, that sounds amazing!
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