Monday, July 22, 2024

Give Yourself a Bouquet

DEBORAH CROMBIE: Finally, I have some justification for a decades long addiction to cut flowers! The Home Ecology of Flowers study conducted at Harvard concluded that:


–Participants who lived with flowers for less than a week felt an increase in feelings of kindness and compassion toward others.


–Participants felt a decrease in anxiety and depression after only a few days.


–People felt a burst of energy and enthusiasm at work when they had flowers in their HOME environment. (I find that one particularly interesting!)


The researcher, Dr. Nancy Etcoff, concludes, "As a psychologist, I'm particularly intrigued to find that people who live with flowers report fewer episodes of anxiety and depressed feelings. Our results suggest that flowers have a positive impact on our well being."



This isn't a new study–I think it was conducted in 2006, but is lately making the rounds in the news and on social media. A boon to florists, as you can imagine!!


But I could have told you those things, except maybe the third result, that having flowers at home carries the positive feelings over into outside work.


For years, one of the reasons I most looked forward to trips to London was the availability of fresh flowers. One of the first things I would do, along with picking up the most essential groceries, was (and still is) to buy a big bouquet of fresh flowers from the nearest street vendor. Most neighborhoods in central London have a flower stall, and of course all the markets have flower sellers as well. I would buy flowers for a long stay in a hotel, too, even if it meant acquiring a vase somewhere!


Flowers were a luxury I couldn't usually afford at home–they were either very expensive from a florist or sad (and also expensive) long-stemmed roses from the supermarket or the drugstore. Then Trader Joe's came to my neighborhood and fresh flowers became a regular weekly fix at home as well as in London. (For those of you who don't have Trader Joe's, every store has a huge daily selection of fresh–and reasonably priced–flowers.) I also cut flowers from my garden, although I've never attempted a real cutting garden, and I buy cheerful bouquets from the farmer's market when they're available. Locally grown flowers are becoming a popular thing here, too.


I know I always feel better when there are flowers in the house. Convalescing from surgery recently, I've kept a bouquet from the farmer's market on my living room table where I can see it all the time, and I always keep a little home-picked posey on my kitchen windowsill. (I've discovered that Swedish ivy, begonia, basil, and rosemary will easily root in a glass and will last for weeks!)




One thing I did notice about the Harvard study is that all the participants were female–would the same results hold true for men, I wonder? What do you think, Reds? Do you keep flowers in the house, and do they boost your mood? (And your productivity!)


HANK PHILLIPPI RYAN: Oh, what a wonderful post. Yes, in fact, I always have flowers. Always. I have a summer flower subscription from the farmers market, so I get what they provide every week, and extend with flowers from our own garden, (and sometimes our rosemary) and sometimes buy at the grocery, whatever looks nice. You know how much I love our home-grown tulips every year, and now we have hydrangeas, and dahlias on the way. Crossing fingers.




And oh, when the peonies arrive, and their fragrance is so lovely!

(And I’m obsessive about changing the water.)

So–yes yes yes, it’s important to me,and I genuinely appreciate them each time I see them.


RHYS BOWEN:  I do love flowers but it’s always iffy about what can be brought into the house and not trigger allergies. Every fancy arrangement from publishers contains lilies which are my absolute nemesis. I do fine with roses, which John brings me occasionally but most flowers that are scented bring on the sneezes. 


HALLIE EPHRON: I love flowers and all summer I bring some in from the garden. This year loads of hydrangea. And I have some orchid plants and a Christmas cactus that reliably bloom. 


Flowers are like birds — a lovely reminder of the spectacular world we’re trying not to irreparably damage. A reason to pick my head up out of the weeds and pay attention.


JENN McKINLAY: Love flowers in the house. I go through phases of buying flowers. Depending upon whether I am in a Hooligan tuition paying cycle or not. LOL. If my rose bush, zinnias, or sunflowers are in bloom  I cut my own, which brings me extra joy because I grew them myself. 


LUCY BURDETTE: I love flowers but mostly keep them outside. I think this has to do with the way the water smells if I don’t change it often, and unlike Hank, I’m bad at this. (Hate to make the comparison, but it’s kind of like kitty litter.)



If we are having dinner guests, I do bring flowers in from John’s garden and the yard and enjoy making funky arrangements including herbs!




JULIA SPENCER-FLEMING: I mean, who doesn’t love flowers inside? In the spring and summer, I’m able to cut from throughout the property; from forsythia branches in March to sunflowers and asters in September. I’m also a huge fan of faux! I started collecting good-quality fabric flowers back when we didn’t even have a Hanneford nearby to pick up a bouquet, and now I have all sorts of seasonal arrangements. I keep them enclosed in plastic bags so they remain dust-free and rotate them on the same schedule I would live flowers. Lucy, you should consider this - no water to change!


DEBS: Lucy, I especially love your little arrangements! Are those blue iris REAL??


How about, dear readers? Do you love flowers in the house?

 

87 comments:

  1. Although I love growing lovely smelling herbs on my balcony garden, I do not keep cut flowers indoors. Like Rhys, I have a ton of allergies, sneezing a lot. We also don't have a store like Trader Joe's where I could buy cut flowers at home for a good price. SIGH.

    HANK: LOVE seeing your gorgeous varied cut tulips each year!

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    1. GRACE: Are the allergies all year around or in the springtime? I noticed that my allergies emerge during the springtime.

      Diana

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    2. DIANA: Springtime is worse for me with tree and grass pollen, but I also have bad ragweed allergies in the fall. And flower allergies are year-round.

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    3. GRACE: So sorry to hear about your allergies. Hope that you can find some kind of remedy for your allergies.

      Diana

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    4. I'm thankful the flowers don't seem to bother me--just grass and tree pollen. And house dust!!!

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    5. DIANA: It seems that the number of allergies are increasing as I get older.
      DEBS: Oh yeah, dust allergies are the worst! I am wheezing every time I vacuum or use a duster to clean up my apartment. It's a vicious cycle.

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  2. We always have flowers . . . sometimes just outdoors, but generally inside as well. Mostly, we cut our own, so as Jenn noted, there's the special joy in knowing we grew them ourselves . . . .

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    1. I love cutting roses for the house in the spring. Although our antiques and climbers aren't really meant for cutting, I can still make beautiful--and heavenly scented--little bouqets.

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  3. You can count me among the allergy suffers, unfortunately. And a squirrel kept digging up my planters on my balcony, so I can't even keep flowers out there.

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    1. Oh, no! I think Grace may have had a mischievous balcony squirrel as well, IIRC.

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    2. JULIA: Yes, SATAN and his kids are my garden nemesis. Besides digging up newly planted seedlings, they usually go after my Asian eggplant, not any cherry tomatoes or herbs or leafy greens.

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    3. HA HA, don't be deceived by the cute photos/videos I post of SATAN & his kids.
      He is an annoyingly destructive pest!

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  4. Flowers do all those cool things for me -- reduce stress, anxiety, and depression, increase kindness and compassion for my fellow man, and energize me. But then again, so does pepperoni pizza.

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    1. Thanks for weighing in from the male contingent, Jerry! And I think we would all agree on the pepperoni pizza:-)

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  5. I love flowers in the house and frequently bring in blooms from our gardens and our bushes, especially in spring. I don't buy cut flowers that often although I could. Our grocery store has an excellent selection of fresh cut flowers all year round. Irwin and our kids send flowers for special occasions, too. When I do have flowers inside, I change the water more often than Lucy, but probably less often than Hank.

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    1. My daughter is the best about sending flowers. The first photo in this post is a bouquet she sent for my birthday. And, luckily, we have a fabulous florist literally down the street from our house, so we always know who to order from locally.

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  6. I almost always have a bouquet on the table. From the market they'll be carnations or alstromeria. From the garden in season I can cut forsythia, daffodils, peonies, daisies, zinnias, or buy some at the farm stand. They absolutely lift the spirits.

    I have to watch out for Martin, though. Lilies are deathly poisonous to cats, something I learned from Annette Dashofy a few years ago. If he decides to nibble on other arrangements, off they go into a room with a closed door!

    I hope you are healing up well and easily from your surgery, Debs.

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    1. Yes, I learned about lilies when we had the plant-eating cat. I don't really like them in the house, anyway, although one in a bouquet isn't usually overpowering. More than that and too smelly!

      I'm doing much better, Edith, thank you!

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  7. Oh my, yes! And I too have a Trader Joe.

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  8. From Celia: what a lovely post, beautiful photos a joy to welcome a busy Monday. I too love flowers and agree that a bouquet in the house improves my mood. In fact after receiving very sad news last week I bought myself a supermarket bouquet to help cheer me up. No worries I’m fine now. I buy from Trader Joe’s, from local markets and even have a flower farm here in Limerick. So plenty of summer choices. The winter offers only supermarket flowers and I’m glad to have that too. Our lake house in the trees doesn’t allow much of a garden as we have little permanent sun but I do grow flowers on the deck and have hanging baskets too.

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    1. Celia, hugs to you!

      My daughter told me last week that there is now a "cut your own" flower farm here. She's going to give it a try.

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  9. I love flowers both inside and out, but for some reason don’t regularly pick them and bring them in – maybe it is the ones that I grow! There are lots of geraniums – about 300 that I over winter, so the sunroom always has rolly racks of something sprouting/rooting. They go along the rock face, but really are not picking plants. I do have Christmas cactus which go outside all summer and usually give at least one flush of blooms. I can’t grow roses, but do love if anyone buys some. It is too bad that they are all bred now to have no scent. Peonies do come in (and drop their petals the next day), and I have discovered sweet peas are gorgeous in the balcony boxes along with then non-pickable gazanias and present lovely scent if picked and put in the house for the entire summer. Sunflowers are grown – for the Blue Jays.
    There is Costco in Halifax – 5 hours away. It does carry huge bouquets of so many varieties - cheap. We arranged to have the Halifax crowd order and bring those flowers for my son’s wedding 7 years ago – so beautiful and so much less expensive than a florist (sorry to them).

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    1. For me, my local Metro and Farm Boy grocery stores NEVER carry fresh cut flowers. Loblaws has fresh cut flowers now, but never in the winter. And Costco is somewhere off in the faraway suburbs, inaccessible to us downtown dwellers who don't drive.

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    2. Margo, I remember (from when I was little) peonies dropping not only lots of petals, but “bazillions” of ants. I had been so proud of picking them for my mommy. The disappointed 5 year old still pops up every time I see peonies. Elisabeth

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    3. Margo, yiu can order small rose plants from a nursery called Heirloom roses. They have roses that grow even in cooler zones. The roses are bred with older species of roses, and they all have a lovely smell. They have roses that can be grown in pots, which could winter with your geraniums.

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    4. Margo, I'm still trying to process "300 geraniums on rolly racks!!!" Isn't that a huge amount of work to care for them all winter? And has your new kitten show any interest in nibbling on plants?

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    5. Elizabeth, our peony season is so short here that I never try to cut them--and, yes, they always have ants!

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    6. 300 geraniums is only a bit of work when they come in the house, as there is usually a hurricane around the corner, and they all need to be processed NOW. I take cuttings and start them in 3" pots, so it is not until after Christmas when things start to get crowded. Somehow I have a lovely blood red one this year - have no idea where it came from, as I buy few, but accept "do you want this for over the winter" plants.
      As for roses - 25 years of trying every kind/type of rose. First we thought it was because they were always planted as a memorial on top of a dead (usually) cat - the usually describes the dead, not the cat. Thought they might off-gas. Have been through David Austin's, floribunda - you name them - nope. Somehow I can keep alive those little miniature ones that are in grocery stores in the winter, so have learned to be happy with that.
      As for Prue (the kitten), she has just made it off the deck to the grass - now that was exciting! Still really tiny and oh, so cute, and Squeek feels obliged to cover her in spit should she pass near him.
      Back from the dentist and shopping - can you believe there were no chocolate wafers/crumbs. It is getting too late to make Lucy's dessert for supper. I wonder if I can make a fruit salad from strawberries, cantaloupe and apple? Time will tell.

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  10. Yes, I love a bouquet on the kitchen table. Interesting though, I'm not a fan of house plants.

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    1. I've kept hanging Boston ferns in our sunporch for years. So messy, and they require daily watering all year, but I love that splash of green.

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  11. Yes, yes, yes. LOVE fresh flowers in the house though I usually only splurge on them in the spring -- tulips from the produce store. Such a lovely reminder that winter is over!

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    1. I buy tulips, too, although lately it seems that they don't open. The peonies I bought this year didn't open either, which was so disappointing. That's never happened before.

      Of course nothing can compete with Hank's garden tulips. I gave up on trying to grow tulips here years ago. Our winters aren't cold enough, so you have to replant every year, and also the squirrels would dig them all up for tasty snacks.

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  12. I also love fresh flowers in the house. I have a wall sconce vase that is about the television which I try to keep filled with flowers, herbs, and grasses, Holly during December. This year has been wonderful for peonies, roses, and hydrangeas. In the non-gardening months our local Market Basket has astrolomeria for $5 a bouquet and there are always at least 2 bouquets downstairs.

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    1. I love astrolomeria! Lily of the Incas, I think it's also called. Such pretty colors, and they last for ages! Oh, they also grow in the vase, like tulips, so you have to cut them down every day or so. When you change the water:-)

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    2. Deborah, yes, one $4.99 bouquet can last 2-21/2 weeks if I’m good about trimming stems and changing the water!

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  13. Flowers? Of any kind? Yes, please! Sometimes my prayer plant blooms, too, which I had no idea they did. Tiny, lavender flowers from a fairy garden. They make me so happy.

    Debs, hope you are all healed up, or at least close to being on the mend. Of course you need pretty posies when you're not feeling well. It's life-affirming to see blooms, isn't it?

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    1. I'd think you'd have a cutting garden, Karen, with all your gardening skills!

      And, thank you, yes, I'm doing much better. My three week post-op appointment is tomorrow, and I"m hoping I will be released to drive! I suspect I may be in the brace for another three weeks, though.

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    2. Fingers crossed for a good report tomorrow.

      I do have lots of flowers to cut, but mostly not the showy ones you have at this time of year. My hydrangeas are still too young. Right now there are small sunflowers and loads of verbena, as well as some disappointing zinnias this year, the result of trying a new variety. Lots of bulbs and other flowers in the spring, though!

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  14. I do love flowers - but I'm not great about the water thing. But The Boy buys me lovely arrangements for Mother's Day and my birthday.

    Gotta have flowers outside, though. My go-to is petunias. Very hardy and they thrive with very little attention from me. LOL

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  15. I’m presently in Nova Scotia and the daylilies are in full bloom. I stumbled upon a neighborhood open garden and WOW! I posted pics in my Instagram/FB stories if anyone wants a floral boost.

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    1. Check out Jenn's Insta stories!! Those daylillies are incredible! (And there is an adorable cat video...)

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    2. Love the photos in Jenn’s Insta stories! Gorgeous flowers! Diana

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    3. Yup, these are gorgeous (looked at Jenn's instagram feed).

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  16. I had not read about that study, so thank you! My friend Mike loves having flowers so I will buy him a bouquet occasionally, but I don't do it for myself. I occasionally cut roses or peonies or dahlias or crazy daisies and bring them in from my yard. My dentist's office always offers me a couple of cut flowers to take home--such a lovely gesture and now it seems even more gracious and helpful. Traumatic couple of hours in the chair? Here are some flowers to lift your mood.

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    1. Gillian, that is the sweetest thing! Every dentist should adopt that practice!

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    2. I agree! I just got home, and all I got was a toothbrush.

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    3. My dentist, although her hygienist is the BEST EVER, no toothbrush, no flowers. Will certainly complain next cleaning…wink, wink. Elisabeth

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  17. I love having fresh flowers in the house, but alas, with the advent of cats who will eat anything green, and a husband who has developed allergies, I shy away. So many beautiful flowers are toxic to cats and dogs. A few years ago, I broke my wrist and my office spent time researching what they could include in the bouquet they sent. It was mostly roses and freesia and it was lovely, but the scent bothered hubs so I relegated them to my home office.

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    1. Kait, we had a plant-eating cat for many years, so I can certainly sympathise with that problem. But he led to me keeping orchids, which seemed to be the one thing he wouldn't eat, and hanging Boston ferns, which were out of his reach. Our two present cats show no interest in flowers or plants, for which I am constantly grateful!

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  18. I arrange the altar flowers for church once a month. We have a flower market in Santa Rosa that I regularly used. During the pandemic, it changed ownership and the prices raised outside my price range. I'll go there specific flowers I that know the markets don't normally carry. I can get what I need at Safeway stores. I can even purchase leather leaf fern, which are my go to for a green filler. If there are any leftovers, which is a rarity, I can bring those home but usually forget to change the water. I'll buy a bunch or two of daffodils, in the spring, for my blue vases. And calla liles for Easter but that's about it. They help brighten my room. Now if I would change the water.


    I enjoy arranging flowers. I have heard that flowers can provide peaceful feelings. I do know, I always stop to admire a garden full of flowers.

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    1. Deana, I'm surprised you don't have a Trader Joe's as I thought they were most common on the west coast.

      I, like Hank, am an obsessive water changer!

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    2. We have several Trader’s Joe grocery shops in our area. Diana

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    3. There are Trader Joes in Sonoma and Santa Rosa. However, some Safeway’s have great fresh flowers, cheaper and more variety than Trader Joes.

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  19. I used to buy flowers every Friday from a shop that was about the size of a closet. The owner always had an interesting variety to choose from.
    I like the flowers at Trader Joe’s, the people who take care of them make sure they are in good condition and provide the little preservative packets.
    I try to get blossoms that aren’t fully open so they will last longer.
    Unfortunately, although my house is comfortable for humans, flowers just don’t keep well in the warm weather and I don’t buy them for that reason.
    I agree with Rhys about lilies, I don’t have an allergy to them, I just dislike their scent.
    Although I used to buy roses, there is one particular variety that has a scent that I don’t like.
    In my travels, most of my trips have occurred when the flowers are in bloom and I’ve taken a lot of pictures.Looking for and visiting gardens have been an important part of the trips.
    Places I have particularly enjoyed are Keukenhof, a bulb park in Holland which is only open in the early spring when the tulips are blooming, the Japanese gardens in Portland Oregon, Longvue Gardens in New Orleans and Butchart Gardens just outside of Victoria BC.
    Charleston SC has beautiful displays of people’s gardens which you can see just walking around the city.
    I live in the Boston area where spring comes relatively late compared to other parts of the country so I am always looking for the first glimmer of green to appear around March and April.
    This year, the daffodils and forsythia arrived a lot earlier and lasted longer, so though I don’t have flowers inside, I have been able to see a lot of flowers outside thanks to the efforts of those who have shared their gardens so we can view them when we walk by.

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    1. The difference in the seasons between my north Texas latitude and new England never fails to surprise me. Our forsythia blooms in February!

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    2. If is a bad winter there aren’t even any leaves until late March or April.
      The time I was in Charleston, it was March 1 and the azaleas, rhododendrons and flowering trees were all in bloom.
      Coincidentally to this post, a friend just arrived in Naples Italy and sent me pictures of flowers on his balcony today.

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  20. I should have combed back through my photo files for some of my favorite London flower stalls! Although inflation has struck there, too--on my first post-pandemic visit I was shocked at the price of a bouquet from one of my favorite neighborhood vendors.

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    1. DEBS: One of the things I love about my visits to England is seeing so many beautiful flowers. Often I see flowers in a box outside a window. I remember seeing flowers at the Kensington Palace Gardens. And the flowers at the Botanical Gardens in Edinburgh, Scotland are gorgeous !

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    2. That was me, Diana

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    3. Oh, so many flowers in the UK, Diana! Even the hanging baskets outside most pubs will take your breath away! I do wonder, as the summers there seem to be getting hotter, if the flowers will thrive as well...

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  21. Lucy and Hank, changing water often lifts my spirits — a housekeeping task that can be checked “done” with very little prep work and lots of reward. Also, it brings to mind Mary Oliver’s act of love “Freshen the Flowers, She Said” : “It took, to do this, perhaps fifteen minutes. Fifteen minutes of music with nothing playing.” (from”Why I Wake Early”).

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    1. Here is a link to the lovely Mary Oliver poem. Thanks for mentioning it!
      https://yearsrisingmaryoliver.blogspot.com/2010/07/freshen-flowers-she-said.html

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  22. From Diana: Though I love flowers in the house, I have to be very careful about bringing in flowers because sometimes bugs hide inside flowers. I have to check the flowers for bugs or bees before bringing the flowers inside !

    Question: Do you like books with flowers on the book cover? I remember a beautiful children’s book with flowers on the cover. I think it was a collection of stories by ? Greenaway? It was a kid sized and I bought it. I think I still have it somewhere.

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    1. A children's illustrator I loved was Tasha Tudor. As a child I had books she'd illustrated with wonderful flowers.

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    2. I'm always attracted to depictions of flowers, whether it's book covers, paintings, or prints. Rhys's cover for The Rose Arbor is a big win there!

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    3. Kim and Deborah, thank you for reminding me of Tasha Tudor and Rhys Bowen. I love that cover of The Rose Arbor and I will look for Tasha Tudor’s illustrated covers.

      Diana

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    4. As a child, I fell in love with the Secret Garden and wanted to live there. The same with Heidi, and the spring flowers on the mountain.

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    5. Loved the Secret Garden novel too. Diana

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  23. You're supposed to change the water? Oh. That explains a lot. Three cats means, like others have said,caution is the word. I don't want to bring in a tasty treat, or a need for an emergency run to the vet.
    Debs, will you be using a standing writing desk while you heal? courage! you are on the mend. sorry that it might be hurting right now. Hugs from Nome street.

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    1. Coralee, I remember learning that from my grandmother. She would also always add a teaspoon of sugar to the fresh water and stir it in. I have no idea how or even if it helps the flowers last, but she did it, so I do as well!

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    2. Coralee, I do have a little rolling table that I've converted to a standing desk. Sitting, with this kind of back surgery (lumbar microdiscectomy) is the most difficult thing. But this morning I am back in my desk chair for the first time other than our live event last week, so fingers crossed. I just have to be careful not to overdo it. And thanks for asking!

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    3. Deborah, ouch! That 'careful not to overdo it' part, is the hardest part to learn, I think!

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    4. Two different friends swear by adding a single copper penny to flower water. I think it keeps the water sweet for longer.

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  24. Hi Debs! That is a fascinating study. I didn't know flowers were shown to improve people's moods, but they certainly lift my spirits. We have a small balcony, and all I grow in its hanging window boxes and pots are flowers. I buy bouquets for my hosts when we go for dinner at friends' homes, but I rarely buy them for myself--it seems very extravagant. When I'm lucky, OUR guests bring me flowers, which I love, but a lot of them like to show up with fancy bottles of oil and vinegar or jars of honey. One should never complain about a gift, but I think I now have six jars of honey on the top shelf of the pantry!! Flowers make everything better!

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    1. The bringing flowers to the host when you're invited for a meal seems a much more British and European custom than American, but I think it's lovely!

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  25. I'm realizing I'm lucky in my dog- and cat-filled house - well, only one cat, but she seems like a lot... None of my pets have ever shown any inclination to go after any of my plants or flowers (although I use faux poinsettias at Christmas time just in case.) Maybe the mouse-catching action in This Old House is more alluring to Neko?

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    1. I'm thinking kittens should be pretested for the plant-eating trait, lol! I'm thinking that the fact that I lived without flowers in the house for more than a decade, thanks to the cat, is one reason why I appreciate them so much now.

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  26. I'm with Kim, I love flowers, adore when someone brings me flowers, but never think to get them for myself--seems too extravagant! But I've always found them a mood lifter--indoors or out.

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  27. I lost a few of my favorite plants to a cat who thinks every pile of dirt is for digging. But he's not so interested in flowers as leaves. Thinks they're cat toys.

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  28. I do love flowers, but my house is currently (like it hasn't been that way for over a year) such a mess that I don't know where I would set them to do them justice. So, I have flowers in my fantasy house, my little cottage where there's no dust or clutter, and the flowers are in the living room and bedroom and kitchen (not sure there's a dining room yet).

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  29. We have numerous flowers all around the yard, due to my wife's energy and care. Occasionally she'll bring in a bunch to put in a small vase on the dining-room table. It's definitely a cheering thing. My only contribution is to appreciate them (and water occasionally).

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  30. Flowers are my indulgence. I almost always have a vase of flowers in my house. While I have tons of allergies also, flowers are not one of my triggers (thank heaven!). I frequently buy alstroemeria as they usually last at least 2 weeks and are colorful and inexpensive. This week the grocery store had a mixed bouquet with daisies, asters, alstroemeria, and a miniature sunflower, a lovely group of pink and yellow to brighten things up.

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  31. I love to cut fresh flowers from my yard to display on my dining room table. Yet, it seems that the deer have found these treasures before I have been able to! So, I have a basement collection, by season, of custom floral arrangements. My husband built shelves for me so that I can keep them organized. I work these in among my house plants and my colored glass collection that also varies by season. Right now, the focus is on mermaids, blue & green glass and flowers!

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