Saturday, December 28, 2024

Lessons from--Titanic?

HANK PHILLIPPI RYAN: Today we are talking about the Titanic. Kind of.  And keep reading for an answer to the Titanic question that I am sure is always on your mind.


But first, the wonderful Valerie Biel is offering champagne today! Okay, virtual champagne—and we hope you will join in her toast.

And then, below, we'll discuss a burning controversy. Seriously.


“Having Champagne with You Fine People”

  By Valerie Biel

I love a good story—I’m not picky about the method of delivery. They all have their place in the world from a dinner table retelling of a day’s high or low points, to a great movie or TV series or to a wonderful novel in any format.  (Although I do love the way a hard cover cracks open so satisfyingly.)

I read a lot of books, sometimes as many as five a week. But I also watch a lot of movies, and often reference movie lines in conversation—which is either annoying or fun—depending mostly on whether you get the reference.

Why is this important? I have a point, I promise. (Are you picturing Reese Witherspoon in the courtroom in Legally Blonde saying that line? ha ha) When Hank Phillippi Ryan offered a guest blog post here with you fine people (hint/hint), a scene from Titanic popped into my mind.

You know the one where Jack is sitting around the dining table as a reward for saving Rose from ‘falling’ off the bow of the ship?

Ruth [Rose’s mom]  And you find that sort of rootless existence appealing, do you?

Jack: [to Ruth and other guests dining at their table] Well, yes, ma'am, I do... I mean, I got everything I need right here with me. I got air in my lungs, a few blank sheets of paper. I mean, I love waking up in the morning not knowing what's gonna happen or, who I'm gonna meet, where I'm gonna wind up. Just the other night I was sleeping under a bridge and now here I am on the grandest ship in the world having champagne with you fine people. I figure life's a gift and I don't intend on wasting it. You don't know what hand you're gonna get dealt next. You learn to take life as it comes at you... to make each day count.

[And then they all go on to toast making each day count!]

I LOVE that scene.

When I shifted gears to fiction writing 15  years ago—it was for exactly that reason—to make each day count.

I’d been mainly working as a political fundraiser, which is not the most fun occupation, when our family was hit with a big loss. Two of my sisters died from the same rare and aggressive cancer a few years apart. This was all deeply heart-wrenchingly sad—we’ve all lost people we love and know that horrible grip of grief. It was time to reevaluate my life. I was simply done with doing something I didn’t like all that much. And I think my sisters would be happy to know they helped give me a kick in the butt to move forward with my writing.

Have I made each day count?  I’ll be the first to admit that some days have ‘counted’ more than others! But I’ve tried to live that way and be grateful for the time to create stories and build the worlds that (hopefully) come alive and entertain my readers.

And I truly love writing novels. I love the process (most of the time.) I definitely love the magical days when you have that ‘ah-ha’ moment for the best plot twist. Aren’t those the best?!

One thing I never could have imagined is the large and supportive writing community I’ve ended up being a part of because—as I’ve learned—writers are excellent people who go out of their way to help each other. You all know that here at Jungle Red Writers! So many individual friendships, collaborations, and partnerships! Then there are the organizations that have been instrumental to my success and survival as a writer … SCBWI, Sisters in Crime, the Blackbird Writers, Wisconsin Writers Association and more. All offering camaraderie and feedback . . . and if needed, navigational assistance to steer clear of proverbial icebergs. (I couldn’t help one more Titanic reference.)

Most important of all though are all the readers who have been willing to spend their money on my stories and especially those who have been willing to tell other people about them. That’s one of the very cool things about being a writer.

As authors, I feel we’re continually on the grandest adventure in the world having champagne with exceptionally fine people and toasting to making each day count!

[Author note: In my opinion, that door was definitely big enough for both of them!]


HANK: Toasting you all, too! And this is perfect timing, Valerie— Reds and readers, tell us one thing you are grateful for today!

And ha, ha-- you all know what Valerie is talking about right? Some people think Jack could have joined Rose on the door/debris floating on the North Atlantic, and they both could have survived. Apparently now the consensus is—can you believe we are talking about this?-- that they could have fit, but then it wouldn’t have floated.

Aren’t you glad you came to the blog today? Did you know about this controversy?



 


Valerie Biel is the author of the mystery-suspense novel Beyond the Cemetery Gate, named one of the Top 100 Indie Books of 2024 by Shelf Unbound Magazine. Her other novels include the award-winning Circle of Nine series and  middle-grade novel, Haven. She uses her powers for good and manages publicity and marketing efforts for other authors. When she’s not sitting behind a computer, she’s reading (or watching a movie), wrangling her overgrown garden, and traveling the world—often on trips for the charity she runs with her husband, The World Orphan Fund. Once upon a time, she graduated from the University of Wisconsin with degrees in journalism and political science. She lives with her husband on a (tiny) portion of her family's century-old farm in rural Wisconsin, but regularly dreams of finding a cozy cottage on the Irish coast where she can write and write. Learn more about her adventures at ValerieBiel.com.

 


About Beyond the Cemetery Gate:

When the police rule her dad’s death an accidental overdose, 16-year-old Chloe refuses to believe it and vows to find his killer. Alone against a potentially corrupt, small-town police force, a persistent social worker seeking proof that she has adult supervision, and precariously low funds, Chloe learns that her dad’s life as a cemetery caretaker masked a web of family secrets that quite possibly led to his death—and are now putting her in mortal danger.

Needing freedom to investigate, Chloe pretends that her only surviving relative, a famous war correspondent, has returned from an overseas assignment to be her guardian. But living alone in the caretaker’s house in the middle of the cemetery, mere feet from the crime scene, puts Chloe’s nerves on edge even before she unearths clues about the shadowy side of her small town. Help comes from unlikely and surprising allies: the colorful owner of the local retro diner, the quiet new classmate with his near-perfect memory, and a spirit who visits in her moments of greatest need.

But as Chloe gets closer to the truth, someone else is getting closer to Chloe, watching her every move. And when her aunt turns up on international news reporting from a war zone, Chloe’s cover is blown. Now the race is on to reveal her dad’s killer—but perhaps—Chloe isn’t as alone as she thought.

"Not all secrets are buried in the grave. Beyond the Cemetery Gate is a nonstop read through a dark, twisting plot and the dangerous world of shadows and sinister people that 16-year-old Chloe must outrun and outsmart." - Patricia Skalka, Author of the Dave Cubiak Door County Mysteries

45 comments:

  1. Congratulations, Valerie, on your new book . . . it sounds creepy and disturbing and exciting and intriguing and I can't wait to meet Chloe . . . .
    As for making each day count, on supporting each other, on being grateful: I think those things are very true for most of us, whether we are writing novels or not. I know I always feel supported; I hope I make each day count; I am grateful for friends and family and for the special friendships and support we enjoy here at Jungle Red Writers . . . .

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    1. AWWW..and we are so grateful to you,too! Yours is almost always the first name I see every day--isn't that so funny? Love you so much!

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    2. Thanks, Joan! I'm so grateful for the chance to join you all today! Cheers to Happy New Year!

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  2. Valerie, congratulations on your new novel and welcome to jungle reds! This post is very timely because I saw something on social media about titanic orphans. It was a reel and it had no captions, though, I’m guessing that either the children were on the titanic with their parents and became orphans or they were home when their parents died on the titanic ? Then I see this post!

    Beyond grateful that good people with kind hearts still exist. Grateful for simple things in life.

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    1. Yes, good people with kind hearts. Perfect. xoxoo

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    2. Yes, every day, so grateful for grateful for the kindness and friendship of others--particularly in the writing community--good people INDEED!!

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  3. I’m grateful to have a house to live in and all my basic needs covered.

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    1. Agree!!! My husband and I spend a lot of time working in third world countries--and it always feels strangely posh for a few days after we come home to our regular house. Also, I have to say--coming back in through passport control into the US is very reassuring after being in countries that don't have our freedom of speech...but that's an entirely different kind of gratefulness blog!!

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  4. Like Sheri, I am grateful for our country home (in Maine) and also some time-freedom to pursue my interests and hobbies. There was a time when my life was consumed by my career and life obligations. Now I have more time. And I appreciate that every day.

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    1. That is so precious--the time to pursue your interests!! I should say as well that I'm so very grateful that I've been able to pursue my writing passion--that would NOT have happened if my husband wasn't willing to be the main breadwinner for a long while!

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  5. Valerie, thanks for sharing your story. I was also motivated by tragedy. Eleven years ago a dear friend was dying of brain cancer. Susan had two sons the same ages as mine and lived only a year after her diagnosis. I was writing mysteries on contract around the edges of a demanding full-time job. I asked myself, if I had only one year to live, would I want to spend it writing software documentation or novels? The choice was simple, and my partner and I made it work financially until my career took off a year or two later. I'm not grateful for her death, but I do feel blessed to write mysteries full time.

    Congratulations on your new book! With a teen protagonist, is it considered YA like your Circle of Nine series or is it shelved as an adult-reader novel?

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  6. Welcome Valerie! I did not know about the door controversy. I am so sorry about your family tragedy and hope your sisters are watching you with satisfaction. Grateful for my family and friends, including all the reds, books, good food, good people in the world.

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    1. Yes, the door controversy had eluded me, too! HA!

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    2. Yes, the great door controversy -- ha ha. Kate Winslet gets asked about it in interviews to this day and she is very good natured about it. She reiterates what Hank said -- yes, he could have fit, but it wouldn't have floated. So now we know. And I feel certain my sisters are cheering me on from the great beyond. There was a day when I was feeling a little too 'woe-is-me' and one of my books came flying off the shelf at me. (In a way that wasn't logical for a book to fall.) So perhaps I was being told to stop my moping and get to work!!

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  7. Valerie, I have a feeling this book is going to land on our library shelves! And I have the perfect reader in mind--one of our voracious readers who regularly scans the pitiable small mystery section of our YA books (our librarian will place Beyond the Cemetery Gate in YA given Chloe's age). But I'll be getting my own copy to read first! I'm grateful for our public libraries--just read an article which pointed out that the book banners in most cases don't even use the library, and scarier--they're now attempting to go after the funding of libraries--on grounds that money is being mismanaged, seeking unnecessary audits, accusing directors of financial improprieties, and trying to get entire boards dismissed, etc. Yup, definitely need wider 'doors' to help keep our libraries and the librarians who staff them afloat!

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    1. You are describing the situation in all the red flyover states. It is not like that in the far west and upper east coast. Ohio and Indiana are the states where we get the most requests for legal help concerning these issues.

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    2. I live in Wisconsin--so we have our fair share of crazy book banning situations and weird library challenges. I am very vocal supporter of our public libraries and am always willing to lend a hand to push back against this nonsense!

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  8. Congratulations, Valerie! Gratitude is a wonderful virtue to cultivate. One year, while I was reading the book Grateful by Diana Butler Bass, I wrote a thank you note to a different person each day in the month of November, . It was such a great way to really appreciate the finer qualities of the people in my life. Today I'm grateful for a warm, safe place to sleep every night.

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    1. WOW, what a brilliant idea, and what an accomplishment! Think of all the people you made happy...awww..xoo

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    2. I wrote a super long reply to this and I think maybe it was too long -- oops! So let me try again! I love so much the idea of reaching out with thank you notes. Snail mail is so special to receive now that we get so few items that aren't bills or junk. I need to do better at this--which is a great goal for 2025!

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  9. Congratulations, Valerie! When we stop to think about it we really do have so many things to be grateful for! Right now I am grateful for so many good books to read! And for the fact that my old eyes still allow me to read the way the prefer, as well as knowing there are other methods available if needed. Thank you wonderful authors everywhere!

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    1. Oh, yes -- I will never take my eyesight for granted. The biggest reading influences in my life--my grandmother and my aunt struggled so much with macular degeneration. They both passed before I became a published author, but I know they would have been some of my biggest fans!

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  10. Congratulations Valerie!

    As for what I'm grateful for? Well, it would've been nice to have won that billion dollar Powerball jackpot but I figure I already got pretty lucky as it is.

    For those that aren't friends of mine on Facebook, I had a fall from a ladder at work this past Monday and somehow managed to not break anything. Yes, pretty banged, battered and bruised but nothing broken. So that pretty much sums up what I'm grateful for, even if I'm still "suffering" from various aches and pains. It could've been a whole freaking lot worse.

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    1. Glad to know you're doing okay after that fall, Jay! (Flora)

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    2. Jay! I did not know about the fall..I hope you are resting and recovering! Poor thing! xxx

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    3. Oh, no!! So glad you didn't break anything. Hoping for a quick recovery from all your aches and pains. Those are nothing to joke about!

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  11. Grateful that Jay is okay, for sure!

    Trying to stay grateful, despite so many of my friends losing themselves to dementia. Is there a national epidemic, or something? Between that and arthritis, medical science needs to get busy. However, I am enormously grateful for having a warm and comfortable home, a kind and considerate husband, healthy and successful children, and plenty of books to read, thanks to all you wonderful authors.

    Wood doesn't sink. Jack could definitely have been saved, but then the movie would not have ended in tragedy, right?

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    1. Damn, Karen, thanks a lot for the spoiler, LOL. Titanic is a movie I actually never watched....

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    2. HA! Apparently the director did a test , and says there's no way it would have floated. And Edith, I have full confidence that you know--or could intuit--the ending of Titanic even without seeing it. :-). (Hmm..I've actually enver seen that version, come to think of it...)

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    3. Edith, I have also never seen Titanic! But there have been so many articles and TV shows about it that I feel as if I have!

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    4. Karen, it really does feel like there's an epidemic of dementia--we know so many people suffering with it. It's such hard, sad work for the caregivers. I agree medical science needs to step up its game on that front!!

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  12. Congratulations, Valerie. Perhaps we'll be neighbors one day on the Irish coast.

    I'm grateful for my incomparable, supportive, and brilliant wife and for the life we've created together.

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    1. Yes, absolutely! and we are also grateful for your wonderful blog yesterday! I hope you will be a regular in our comments!

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    2. Thanks, Bruce! It'd be lovely to have a writing neighbor as talented as you! What's your favorite area of Ireland? I usually gravitate to the west. Counties Donegal, Mayo, Sligo, Galway and such. (There's that program that will give you money to relocate to one of the Irish islands losing population. . . that sounds appealing as long as there's decent wifi!)

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  13. Valerie, I love the idea of making every day count, although, like all of us, I don't always put it into practice. I also like the the - I don't know, adjacent? - idea that we all have gifts, and not using them to their fullest is a deep waste. So whether your gift is for cooking, or friendship, or painting, or parenting - pursue it with a passion!

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  14. What I learned from deaths of folks I cared about: don't put off things you want to do because you're being "responsible." In our case we kept saying "someday" to international travel. I'm grateful for good health and the ability to travel and a husband who's willing to indulge me.

    Valerie, that blurb really grabbed me! As for floating on a door, I'd have pulled Jack up on it and frozen with him!

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    1. I'm so glad the blurb resonated with you. Gosh those are hard to write properly--good to know it's working! And I'm so glad you're getting your international travel in. I'd love to know the favorite place you've been so far! I'm so grateful my husband loves to travel as much as I do--we have great fun on our adventures. Here's to many more years of travel for all of us!

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  15. Good for you, Valerie! I, too, have lost a sibling and it is devastating. Congratulations on your latest release - it sounds wonderful and I can't wait to read it. Yes, there was definitely enough room on the door!

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