Thursday, January 16, 2025

In Praise of Comedy, by Tilia Klebenov Jacobs

JULIA SPENCER-FLEMING: We started this week talking about the things that keep us going through the long gray days of winter: the green of houseplants, some mindful gratitude. Tilia Klebenov Jacobs has also put her finger on something we all need. In her new YA time-travel caper,  STEALING TIME, a present-day teen is tossed back to the 1980s, where she teams up with her 15 year old future dad to stop a thief and save their family's future. Comedy ensues, and action, and, maybe most importantly, optimism.

 

 

 

 

“Can’t tell you how much I needed this.  Fun!”

 

            This, my favorite review for Stealing Time, appeared right after Election Day, and I suspect the reader’s need for comfort reflected the recently-closed political season.  I was flattered to have provided such a tonic, because although our culture frequently values tragedy over comedy, I feel that the latter, being the genre of positive outcomes, is an essential service.

 

            By “comedy,” I do not necessarily mean that which is laughter-inducing.  Instead, I am hewing close to the Classical definition.  The Greeks and Romans used the term “comedy” to mean stage-plays with happy endings.  Aristotle believed that comedy was positive for society, as it brought forth happiness, which he saw as the ideal state.  It was seen as a profoundly valuable artistic expression in ancient society:  Plato quotes Socrates as saying that “the genius of comedy [is] the same with that of tragedy.”  

 

            Today we have drifted far from that conviction.  As novelist Julian Gough points out, “Western culture since the Middle Ages has overvalued the tragic and undervalued the comic.  We think of tragedy as major, and comedy as minor.  Brilliant comedies never win the best film Oscar.  The Booker Prize leans toward the tragic.”  Indeed.  Most bestseller lists confirm this, as does my local cinema’s schedule for the upcoming months:  their offerings for children focused on overcoming obstacles with humor, inventiveness, and courage; those for adults were mostly about serial killers, dystopias, and nuclear annihilation.  

 

            Aristotle defined comedy as “the fortunate rise of a sympathetic character.”  This upward arc, far from being inherently facile or immature, reminds us that order will prevail, that evil is transient, that good will ultimately return.  Tragedy, by contrast, focuses on chaos.  Tragedy happens when order falls apart, and those things we thought were secure (health, love, sanity) crumble.  To quote IamNormanLeonard, tragedy is “when the banana peel leads to a broken hip.  When the man betrays his family.  When the young woman succumbs to a mental illness.”  He adds, “Pity, bitterness, rage, sadness, fear, dread, and, worst of all, hopelessness—these can kill you.”

 

            Broadly speaking, tragedy deals with death, comedy with life.  It is thus the expression of optimism and resilience.  This was underscored to me in a recent episode of the podcast Where EverybodyKnows Your Name featuring an interview between Ted Danson and Lisa Kudrow, two comic actors of the highest caliber.  Both objected to the idea that their genre is inconsequential.  When Kudrow observed, “Entertainment is a service,” Danson replied that he had come to realize the value of his work when strangers told him how his comedy helped them survive tragedy.

 

Somewhere in the middle of [Cheers] or certainly after, people coming up to me and saying, “My father was dying, and he and I would lie on a sofa together and watch Cheers and be able to laugh.  So the old, “We’re not curing cancer”—I disagree.

 

Cheers ended decades ago, but during Covid it must surely again have been Must See TV.  As soon as lockdowns went into effect, those of us who were able leaped to boardgames, streaming series of an unserious nature, jigsaw puzzles, and comfort novels.  We wanted art, dammit, and during the bleakest time most of us could remember, we specifically wanted escapism.  Because we knew without being told that comedy would keep us going until life returned to normal.

 

            Pain kills; laughter revives; and comedy reminds us that the gods are in charge and the world will right itself.  

 

            Let’s hear it for comedy.

 


When there’s no time left, you have to steal it!

New York, 2020. Tori’s world is falling apart. Between the pandemic and her parents’ divorce, what else could go wrong?

Plenty! Like discovering that a jewelry heist forty years ago sent her grandfather to jail and destroyed her family.

New York, 1980. Bobby’s life is pretty great—until a strange girl shows up in his apartment claiming to be a visitor from the future. Specifically,
his future, which apparently stinks. Oh, and did she mention she’s his daughter?

Soon Bobby and Tori have joined forces to save the mystical gemstone at the heart of all their troubles. But a gang of thugs wants it too, and they’re not about to let a couple of teenagers get in their way.

 

 

 

 

 





75 comments:

  1. Oh, clever . . . Tilia's book sounds like a real gem; definitely one to check out . . . .
    As for comedy, I couldn't agree with you more . . . being able to laugh definitely keeps us from being overwhelmed . . . .

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    1. Thank you, Joan! I hope you enjoy the book. And yes, laughter and joy are such a gift.

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    2. Tilia again. Also--were you punning when you said the book "sounds like a real gem"?

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    3. An unplanned pun, Tilia . . . the book sounds like a perfect read and I'm looking forward to meeting Tori and Bobby.

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    4. (Tilia here) Then bless you and your inner punster in equal measure! Thank you so much.

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  2. Congratulations, Tilia. Writing gentle mysteries with occasional humor and satisfying endings saved me during the pandemic. Reading them did, too.

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    1. Thank you, Edith! (This is Tilia--haven't figured out yet how to comment other than anonymously.) I remember how much I enjoyed your story "The Management of Secrets" in Deadly Nightshade for exactly those reasons: it was gentle, had humor, and the ending was really satisfying. (Full disclosure: Stealing Time is not as gentle as that. But it's funny and satisfying!)

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  3. I agree about the need for comedy, which I have always loved. Surely Plato's view of Comedy is correct, but I
    will take all the humor an author can legitimately include, because laughter is such a great release. Without getting to specific about circumstances, I need to laugh these days.
    Your book sounds wonderful, Tilia. A teen from any year, showing up back in her own teen-aged parent's life with information about the future is a terrific set-up. I'm looking for it now.

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    1. Whoops, "too specific..."

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    2. This is Tilia. Thank you so much, Judy! I would love to know what you think of it, and I really hope you enjoy it.

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  4. You've made me realize that "the rise of a sympathetic character" is exactly what I'm looking for when I pick up a book, Tilia. The character I especially like can experience hardship, deep sadness, pain, and chaos during the story, but at the end of the book, s/he has to be happy. What a good essay! You made me think about what I'm looking for when I pick up a work of fiction. Who thought I'd find Aristotle so inspiring? I love time-travel books, too, so your novel sounds very appealing. Thank you.

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    1. (This is Tilia.) Oh, wow--thank you so much! Well, it's hard to beat Aristotle! He apparently wrote a whole thesis on comedy, but it's been lost so we only have a few references. And I'm with you on the need for the rise of a sympathetic character. Yes, they can suffer, but the resolution needs to be positive. Hope you enjoy ST!

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  5. I have to have this book! You had me at time travel, which was enough for me, but then the description and the humor pulled me in further. Just what we need these days.

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    1. This is Tilia. Thank you so much! Norman and I wrote ST during Covid. We knew each other slightly during college and reconnected just as the pandemic was kicking into high gear, so we were writing during some really bleak days. But we knew right from the get-go that the story would be funny and uplifting, as well as having all the feels. Hope you enjoy it!

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  6. Congratulations, Tilia. The book sounds like great fun. I love happy endings, and being able to laugh out loud loosens that knot of tension in my chest. Recently, I've been watching the British game show TaskMaster, which has some really funny episodes.

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    1. (This is Tilia.) Thank you! A lot of readers have told us that ST did indeed make them laugh out loud, and praise doesn't get much higher than that! I've never heard of TaskMaster, but I'll have to check it out. Is it on a streaming platform or regular TV?

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    2. You can watch a lot of it on YouTube, that's where my son and I have found it.

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    3. (Tilia here.) Found it, and have added a couple of episodes to my watch list! Thanks for the suggestion.

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  7. I so agree with the need for comedy. Especially, the ability to laugh at ourselves and our foibles. Comedy nearly always has at least a gram of truth behind it. Using that comedy to acknowledge our shortcomings gives us a unique opportunity to improve through laughter. How wonderful is that?! Much success with this book, Tilia. It sounds like a winner! -- Victoria

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    1. (This is Tilia.) Thank you, Victoria! Yes, comedy is the great truth-teller in so many ways. I love the fact that the Greeks viewed it as the way of the gods. There's so much wisdom in that.

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  8. Hear, hear, Tilia! Humor is sorely needed these days, and the differences between those with a great sense of humor (Barack Obama, Julia Spencer-Fleming: perfect examples), and those without are stark. Someone who can't either take a joke or make one is not nearly as interesting--or as intelligent, in my opinion--as one who is quick enough to find the humor that is in just about every aspect of life. That's especially true if the resulting humor isn't biting or personal.

    Gillian, I had never heard of TaskMaster, but I just watched a YouTube of Richard Osman talking about his TM experiences, and I see what you mean!

    Stealing Time, with two teenagers, sounds brilliant. Just convincing a 15-year old he would ever be a father, let alone grown-up and having problems, would make for a funny situation.

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    1. Hi, Karen. This is Tilia. Yes, I think humor de facto expresses intelligence, because so much of it has to do with expressing or appreciating multiple ideas simultaneously. Also, for the most part humor is unexpected, or it isn't funny; so it has to be new in some way. As for your comments about convincing a fifteen-year-old he would ever be a father--full points! That's actually one of the things we mined for laughs in the book.

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    2. Yes, to all!

      And you are surely aware that "Tilia" is the Latin genus name for the Linden tree, right?

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    3. (Tilia here.) I most certainly am! My parents didn't know, though: for them it was just a variant on my great-grandmother's family nickname. Fun fact: I looked up linden trees once, and found that I am a "small but complex genus, worthy of careful restudy." :-D

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    4. Been gone all day, but if you check back, Tilia, I got a kick out of this!

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  9. This sounds fantastic!

    As an English student, I can say there is nothing "inconsequential" about Shakespeare's comedies, which have just as much to say about life and the human condition as his tragedies. I am also reminded of this quote from Stan Lee: "I used to be embarrassed because I was just a comic book writer while other people were building bridges or going on to medical careers. And then I began to realize that entertainment is one of the most important things in people's lives. Without it, they might go off the deep end."

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    1. (This is Tilia.) So true! And that quote from Ted Danson about how comedic actors say "We're not curing cancer"? Well, the person who *is* curing cancer is doing that so their patients can get back to gardening, dancing, reading, and watching their favorite sitcoms. The serious endeavors in life support the joyous ones, and vice-versa.

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    2. (Tilia again.) And I was/am an English student too! Have you read PG Wodehouse? A comedic genius with the single best use of our mother tongue that I have ever seen.

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    3. I have not read Wodehouse in many years. I should do some re-reading.

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    4. Wodehouse is my desert island author.

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  10. TILIA: Congratulations on your new book!

    I enjoy reading time travel stories but most of them are not funny.
    Too much butterfly effects causing unintended negative effects.

    Writing humour (with or without a "u ") is hard!
    Laughing about a father-daughter's situation in your book sounds intriguing.

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    1. Hi, Grace! This is Tilia. Are you in Canada, the UK, or some other place (Australia? NZ?) with British spellings? We definitely wanted to lean into the absurdist aspects of time-travel. It's funny that so much time-travel stories are dour, because the book that I believe started the genre--A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur's Court--is definitely funny, and also full of social commentary.

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    2. Such a lovely country! Full of theatres, litres, metres, and gentle good humour. Also, I want you to know that I had to go back and re-type every one of those after spellcheck changed them to the American spellings.

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    3. Ha ha, autocorrect can be more of a hindrance than help in this situation!

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  11. Liz, I so agree about Shakespeare's comedies! Comedy has provided moments of light and laughter even in the darkest of times for me--and I'm another reader always intrigued by time-traveling tales. Looking forward to reading this book, Tilia!

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    1. (This is Tilia.) Oh, my goodness--thank you so much, and I hope you love it! My url is on the back of the book, so feel free to reach out and tell me what you thought of it.

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  12. "Prepare for mirth, for mirth becomes a feast...with mirth and laughter let old wrinkles come." Shakespeare

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    1. (This is Tilia.) Great quote! Are you and Shakespeare suggesting that laugh lines are the best kind of wrinkles?

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    2. Hi Tilia, I'd like to think all my wrinkles are from laughing. :)

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    3. (Tilia here) If mine aren't, then they've got some explaining to do!

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  13. Someone wrote a book about how laughter is the best medicine. This author was recovering from surgery and discovered that laughing helped them heal.

    Welcome to JRW! The premise of Stealing Time sounds intriguing. As I recall, the 1980s was a decade of greed where it seemed like society was too interested in becoming rich.

    Will there be a character like Phelps from Mission Impossible in your novel? I do not know why I was reminded of the opening scene in MI.

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    1. This is Tilia. We don't have anything really MI-ish, although there is a really fun heist based on an actual one in the 1960s. As for the feel of the times, for sure the 1980s have the reputation as the "Greed Is Good" era, but that kicked in later. Our book takes place in March 1980, so the decade was only a few months old. The feel was more late 1970s in terms of style and affect. Have you ever noticed that the defining features of a decade usually start a few years in? Like, the 1960s are always associated with hippies, war protests, and recreational drug use, but that seems to have started (or anyway accelerated) after JFK's assassination in 1963. Up till then the zeitgeist seems to have been much more 1950s, with an emphasis on conformity and less social agitation.

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    2. Tilla, yes, I noticed that the "hippie" 1960s did not kick in until after JFK died. Looking at the photos, I can see the drastic differences between photos of people in 1960 and photos of people after 1963. We look forward to reading Stealing Time!

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    3. (Tilia again.) Oh, my goodness, that's great! The bit about reading ST, that is, not the hippies per se. I hope you love it! (Again, I mean I hope you love the book; how you feel about the hippies is your own business.)

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    4. Neutral about hippies.

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  14. This sounds brilliant, Julia. So much YA is dark, scary, dystopian. I stay away from depressing books and I try to write books that end well. Too much darkness in the world today

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    1. (This is Tilia.) Oh, Rhys, I am SO WITH YOU on that! The idea that art has to be bleak to be valid--I've never ascribed to that. And I feel we do young people no service at all by telling them that despair is somehow ennobling. Do you have a favorite YA book or author? I'm partial to Madeleine L'Engle.

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    2. Agreed that there is too much darkness in the world. I prefer comedy to tragedy during dark times.

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    3. Tilia, I love Madeleine L'Engle (as did my mom, who was a children's librarian) I reread some of them a few years ago and found A Ring of Endless Light so touching and beautiful.

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    4. (This is Tilia.) A Ring of Endless Light is downright therapeutic! My friends and I read it endlessly in college. L'Engle had such wonderful insights about human nature, and such a deep understanding of the beauty and challenges of adolescence.

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  15. Tilia, , this book sounds great! I can’t wait to read it!
    DebRo

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    1. (Tilia here.) Oh, that's great! Thank you so much, and I hope you love it.

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  16. What a charming plot! I don't read as much MG/YA as I used to, but I would have loved to have this in my classroom. I'm a great believer in the power of humor.

    When I was teaching even younger kids (3rd graders for 3 years), one day something funny happened - I don't remember what, but we all just started laughing, and for quite some time. Finally I said, "Let's get back to the lesson, but really, sometimes you just need a good laugh." And one of my students, an immigrant from South America, said, "That's what my mom says. She says, 'What is life without a little laughter?'" Isn't that a wonderful thing to teach your kids?

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    1. (Tilia here.) It's the best. Here's something I had to cut from the post due to the word limit: the Greeks had a goddess of comedy, the Muse Thalia. Her name means "flourishing" because the praises in her songs flourish throughout all time. Isn't that just gorgeous? Comedy and light and joy are eternal. Joy cometh in the morning.

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    2. (Tilia again.) How old are your current students?

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    3. (Tilia here.) Ah! I see now I misread the first line of your comment. I thought you said, "I would love to have this in my classroom," not "I would *have loved.*" Teaching stays with you, though, doesn't it? I've always loved it.

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  17. Better to laugh than to cry! One lovely thing about the Episcopal church, we are not hesitant to laugh if the minister goofs up in the service. He or she will see a sea of faces with big grins on them.
    Years ago we'd tease my sister because one of her dialysis days happened to be on trash day. Humor helps you get through life.

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    1. Yes! and in my parish, we've been lucky enough to have a series of rectors with great senses of humor!

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    2. (Tilia here.) Such an important ingredient!

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  18. You're speaking my language, Tilia! I won't read anything that doesn't have humor in its mix and I only write comedy. Life is too absurd and too short to not laugh every day - even on the tragic ones.

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    1. (Tilia here.) I'm glad you feel that way! I find that humorless stories often get boring, because in real life people always seek the funny. My husband often points out that a lot of Shakespeare's funniest moments happen within his tragedies, like the drunken porter in Macbeth. I mean, isn't that part of why the tragedy and comedy masks are usually paired? Because they go together?

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  19. I've always loved time travel stories, and I'm sure I'll love Stealing Time, Tilia, especially if there's humor. The element of humor in a book has become much more important to me lately. I appreciate it when very serious books slip in a morsel of humor, too. I was thinking of Louise Penny's Gamache books where Ruth's duck and F.I.N.E. and Gamache's dogs and Ruth stealing books from Myrna's shop all serve to make me smile. But, reading books because you know the humor is out front in the characters and the story are especially comforting, such as Catriona McPherson's Last Ditch series and Wendall Thomas' Cyd Redondo series. Of course, Jenn's books and Lucy's Key West books and Rhys Lady Georgie books always delightful chuckles, too. Humor and laughter aren't going to fix your troubles, but if being distracted from those troubles for just a bit is a wonderful gift from those who are responsible for the smiles returning to you.

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    1. (Tilia here.) Oh, thankyoueversomuch! I hope you love it too. And there is definitely humor! I'm with you about serious books slipping in humor. It just makes the whole thing better leavened, don't you think? Are you familiar with PG Wodehouse? British writer, wildly funny, has an amazing way with the English language. Wonderful stuff.

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    2. OMG! Tilia we must be soul sisters. I love PG Wodehouse's humor. In fact, last night I came across on of his quotes:

      "As I let the mind dwell, I wouldn't have said off hand that I had a subconscious mind, but I suppose I must have without knowing it." Wooster

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    3. (Tilia here.) I adore him. He is the author who makes me laugh the most and the loudest. Admittedly, Terry Pratchett comes in a close second. I think his YA stuff is actually better than his adult books. Are you familiar? If you like Wodehouse, you might really enjoy Pratchett.

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  20. I'm checking out Tilia's suggestion of "A Ring of Endless Light" for my 11 year old granddaughter.
    Sometimes the classic children's literature are still perfect choices for today:
    Charlotte's Web, Winnie the Pooh, Peter Pan, Tom Sawyer, etc.

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    1. (Tilia here.) For sure! There's a reason they're classics. If your daughter hasn't read any L'Engle yet, you might want to start with A Wrinkle in Time, which I read for the first time when I was twelve.

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  21. Hi Tilia! I've often said that Schitt's Creek and Ted Lasso saved us during the pandemic. In fact, in the current situation, it might be time to rewatch Ted... I love YA books, and time travel, and humor, so Stealing Time is right up my alley!

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    1. (Tilia here.) Hooray! I hope you love it. We also got through the pandemic on Ted Lasso's shoulders. I was deeply impressed with how the writers made it funny without being mean. Another one of our pandemic streaming saviors was The Good Place, which was very funny and wildly inventive. Have you seen that?

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    2. LOVE The Good Place. Agreed. Absolutely genius!

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    3. Oh, that was me above!

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  22. This is so intriguing and fascinating! And really makes me think about humor. I never liked I Love Lucy because I don’t think humiliation is funny…and not a fan at all of practical “jokes.” But analyzing what IS funny is so ephemeral and hard to grasp.
    I do love time travel! And congratulations on this wonderful-sounding book!

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  23. (Tilia here) Well, howdy, Hank! I'm with you on humiliation not being funny. I can never stand things like AFHV or those nasty videos parents post of their kids crying over something the parent thinks is inconsequential. Relying on character, dialogue, and plot twists for humor is much more of a trick, and I think it plays a lot better.

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