Wednesday, March 12, 2025

Escape from March

JULIA SPENCER-FLEMING: This past week I was staying at my sister Barb’s house in the DC area. She and her husband are celebrating their 25th anniversary and a landmark birthday with a trip to Greece (which also doubles as a visit with their youngest son, a student at the University of Athens.) They have three, shall we say, unique dogs with unusual temperaments and needs, and they asked if I could dog- and house-sit while they were away.



I was happy to, because my sister is the bomb-diggity and it’s nice to be able to do something sweet for her. But also, like many folks residing in northern climes, I LOVE getting out of Maine in March.


March is the WORST month in the northeast, bar none. At this point, we are all just so damn tired of winter. So. Damn. Tired. Yes, temperatures are trending upward. (It hit 40F/5C yesterday, woo hoo!) Yes, the snow is melting, turning everything not covered in stone or asphalt into a mucky mire. No, I don’t have to leave the water trickling overnight like I did in January and February.


But it’s been  almost three months since Christmas. The excitement from seeing beautiful snow flakes falling has become an existential dread. The once-new woolly sweaters and boots feel like penitential garb. Sitting close to the woodstove has gone from cozy to claustrophobic.



Kingsley doesn't like March either

And as the snow slowly, slowly melts, the revealed landscape is all brown and gray - dirt scraped up from the road, dead grass, sodden trees. We still have two more weeks before the earliest colors - our ubiquitous forsythia. A good month before the daffodils and narcissus.


Meanwhile, in Alexandria, it’s in the fifties, and the sun is shining. The grass is greening, and the daffodils and visible in people’s gardens. The flowering trees and shrubs that make the DC area such a wonderland in spring aren’t in blossom yet, but the signs of life are everywhere. I wear sneakers while walking her (weird little) dogs. Sneakers! I haven’t worn anything except boots or slippers in four months. I go coatless on the morning walk - although admittedly, this is me being a Maine resident for most of my life. Everyone else I see walking their dogs has at least a windbreaker on.


So it’s been great getting away for week. Just that small taste of spring gives me the strength to carry on through mud season. How about you, dear readers? What’s the worst month where you live, and how to you power through it?







83 comments:

  1. Worst winter weather? January and February tend to be the coldest [and the snowiest] months; mostly I stay home as much as possible. Cold and snow and ice are definitely not my idea of lovely weather, so I'm happy to be able to say the temperature was about sixty [yes, sixty!] degrees today and the daffodils are just about to bloom . . . .

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  2. The worst month for cooler weather is usually January. This year it was warm and sunny in January. More rain in February. Spring is here in California. The white blooming trees started mid January and the pink followed three weeks later. Grass and hills are a beautiful green. Many flowers are blooming, or never stopped, like the geraniums. We have had several days in the mid eighties. If the sun is out, the high is usually near 80. Roses are blooming, and it is time to plant tomatoes.
    This is central California, very southern and warmer end of the Bay Area.

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  3. I'm with you on March in New England, for sure. Nobody likes mud. Even worse, when the ground is still frozen but it rains and floods basements because there's nowhere for the water to seep into. But November can be So Dark. Just...dark. If it weren't for my birthday and Thanksgiving, I might just give up in November.

    I'll report back on March in Denver tomorrow - heading to the airport in an hour for Left Coast Crime (see you there, Rhys)!

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  4. March is definitely bad here in the Adirondacks. For all the reasons you mention, Julia, a friend and I used to stuff our children in a car and drive to south-central Florida during our school's mid-March vacation. Oh, the incredible relief of not dealing with snowsuits and wet boots and frozen mittens! I rented a condo in a retirement community in what was then the middle of nowhere. We brought bikes and bird guides and every other day we'd visit the local Goodwill for new paperbacks and old VHS movies to watch with dinner. We'd read while the kids played in the pool. It was all very quiet. It was perfect. However, THEN we'd drive back to the mountains to find fresh snow and more weeks of subfreezing weather. In many years, April is the toughest month here, more like the March you describe. It's the sixth month of cold and gloom. Robins typically return on a warmish day circa March 30, but if the snow has subsided the fields are frozen and brown and apparently lifeless. Often it snows after the robins' arrival and you see them hunched and miserable on the ground. It's usually early May before the green really gets going. I'm always grateful to the poplars, "popple," often here dismissed as a "weed tree." As a group they are among the first to show a flush of pale green buds in the spring and the last to lose golden leaves in the fall. (Selden)

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    1. Surely Selden in March and April you would have the happiness of young lambs dancing in the snow, the puddles, the mud, and the spring sunshine. That made my heart sing!

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    2. No puddles yet, Margo, nor lambs dancing in the snow. We've had a couple of feet, plus a week of high wind, dreary grey skies, and temps around 0°F... though it's warmed up significantly in the last few days (down to 12° at night). Only two weeks ago I had to hire a backhoe to come out from town to shift the snowbanks back from the driveway because there was no place for a plow to put more. With this very recent warming I've seen small birds at a distance, in the woods, for the first time since late November. And enough snow has subsided that I can get my 1-gallon small bucket under the standing frost-free spigot in the barnyard. (The barn frost-free has been frozen for months.) I fill my five-gallon buckets gallon by gallon. That's better than pint by pint, which it was until this recent melt back... the ice has been so high I could only fit the lip of the small bucket underneath. Things are definitely on the upswing, and today is a bluebird day... blue skies and due to get to 30°F. :) (Selden)

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  5. Yes, March was the most horrid month in Rochester, Minnesota where I previously lived for 40 years. Also, unbelievably, the snowiest month historically and that snow is always the heavy wet stuff.
    Although it is lovely to see so much green and flowers blooming here now, I was disappointed by the long stretch of gray and cold weather we had in Ocala, Fl in January and February this year. Everyone says it was very unusual. I expect the summer months to be the ones to keep people indoors because of the heat and humidity, but at least we will not have to shovel it.

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  6. Usually the storms hit in January. These days it seems October is the worst with the fires in California.

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  7. In much of New England, March comes in like a lion and goes out with the lion's lifeless body still frozen in a snowbank. Ptah!

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  8. In Washington DC, when it does up to 50 degrees it is considered warm in March

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  9. March, though Cincinnati is not as bad as Cleveland. Mud, daffodils pushing up, lots of sticks littering the yard. It's warm enough not to wear my usual down-filled pup tent coat. The car washes are busy.

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  10. March for sure is the ugly month here, dirty snow and ice and still so cold. We have a magnificent view of forest covered hills and even they are dull and brown. But April is the month of greatest disappointment, as the snow (finally!) starts to disappear but often returns for a last storm or two. So discouraging, especially if one likes to garden. Although the last couple of years we have had a heat wave in mid-April, just to keep us guessing.

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  11. Happy 25th anniversary to Barb! They sure picked a scary time to be in Athens, didn't they? SO many protests and violence in the last couple weeks. There were flashbangs set off right outside my daughter's flat when the crowd overflowed into their neighborhood in Kolonaki last Monday.

    February is my least favorite month, although this year it was cold enough to have the fireplace roaring almost every night. Gave me a chance to catch up on garden planning, so I just hygged it up.

    My daughter in Traverse City always says the same thing about how looooong and dreary March is. Even though she's a born-again "Up North" Michigander, she yearns for the flowering trees and spring bulbs this time of year, and is so over the shoulder-height snow piled in their yard. In fact, she's in Cincinnati this week, reveling in the 70-ish temps and being outside as much as she can.

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    1. It sounds like it was peaceful this past week for them, Karen. They're based in Athens because that's where their son lives, but they've been taking lots of day or overnight trips to parts of Greece they haven't seen yet. I can't believe I've never been to there!

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    2. I'm glad! The protest was ten days ago, so maybe they missed it.

      We've only been once, last April for a week. Two nights spent on Naxos. Not nearly enough time!

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  12. Like KAREN, February is my least favourite month. By then, we have had 3 months of never ending snow and cold. March flipflops from winter to false spring. It is -8C/14F in Ottawa this morning.

    Here in Denver, it is 6C/42 F going up to 21C/70F!

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    1. That's eye-popping, Grace. I swear Colorado has the oddest array of weather in any state of the union.

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  13. March is my least favourite month for all the reasons you list, Julia. January is fine, because it's a new year. February means we've made it through January. But March seems interminable with its cycle of cold then warm enough to melt and than back to cold enough to freeze, so ice is everywhere making being outdoors a challenge even if the temps seem appealing. But we're almost halfway through this month and then it's April...with whatever that month will bring. But we'll be closer to May and that's always good.

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    1. I do recall loving January and February and even early March when I was younger, Amanda, because I was a skier. Alas, age and an increasing number of small children put paid to that sport, so now there's nothing alluring about the time between Christmas and Easter...

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  14. Here is Atlantic Canada today, it is raining. The sky-ceiling seems to be touching the earth it is so dark. The satellite for tv (we need it for radio as well) is flipping in and out – it doesn’t like rain. The beauty (?) of this time of year is that the ground is still frozen, so any liquid collecting on soil does not perk – that means ‘stuff’ backs up in the bath tub. That means only one ‘wet load’ a day be it wash, dishes, etc. We always hope not to have company at this time!
    Worse month – psychologically, probably May or June. In your head it should be warm, getting warmer, and sunny, and yet so often Mother Nature screams – No, No, No. Fooled you! Then she presents rain, cold, misty, foggy, and even snowy days just to annoy you. Sometimes she plays April Fool and gives you nice weather – just to keep you on your toes…
    So, in spite of all this, I welcome the change in clocks that happened on the weekend, as I do not like to get up early, and see no reason to have light in my eyes starting from 4:30 am and decreasing (that is on the longest days of the year, but strong light is wasted in my mind and eyes any time before 6am). We are on the eastern edge of Atlantic time, so we are the first to get the light – if you go to the western edge of the same time zone, there is about 45 mins difference. I feel like John Denver as I sing “Sunlight on my shoulder makes me happy…”

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    1. Margo, you remind me of the time I was in Indianapolis for a book festival. I've been living in the easternmost part of the Eastern Time Zone for decades, and that city is as far west as you can go before crossing into Central time. I was staying in a hotel, of course, and I got up around 7 or 7:30 and did what I always do first thing in a hotel - fling the blackout curtains wide open. Imagine my shock at discovering it was still dark outside! I thought my travel clock had broken.

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  15. Glad you got to escape for a week! And Happy Anniversary to your sister. The weather has been so inconsistent lately, it's hard to answer the question. Often the winter includes weeks of gray, rain, occasional snow and general gloom. It gets very old. This year we had 3 weeks of sunshine in January and without the biting east wind. So strange. We had 2 days of snow in mid February (which meant cancellation of my orthopedic appointment and another week in the cumbersome urgent care splint). March seems a bit more normal, with rain and occasional sunny days. Daffodils and daphne and tulip trees and hellebore are all blooming here. Portland is lovely in the spring and we do appreciate the sunshine when it shows up.

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    1. Kind of what I said about people in northern climes really appreciating spring - I suspect when you live with a lot of clouds and rain, the sunny days feel like a holiday!

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  16. Without a doubt September in Tampa. It is usually the height of hurricane season. The humidity hovers above 95%, and it is 75 degrees - at night. It rains every. darn. day. Almost always right when schools let out, or rush hour starts. Cockroaches, and snakes rule the outdoors. If any decided to make plans to visit, like for Labor Day; reconsider.

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    1. Okay, Coralee, you have me at "snakes and cockroaches." I'll wait for a different month to visit the Sunshine state!

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  17. I agree that March is dreary, but I think the hardest month for me is November. In November, the attractive part of fall is gone, Christmas is a long way away, and there's no Thanksgiving in Switzerland; cold rain, sleet, and sometimes snow fall off and on, and above all it's DARK and growing darker.

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    1. Oh, yes, Kim, that looming darkness growing every day, but before there are Christmas lights everywhere... it's a dreary time of year.

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  18. January AND February are my least favorite months here in Pennsylvania. I'm over the snow the minutes the New Year rolls in. January is all snow and ice. February is dirty snow and slush, all this year, February was colder than usual, so no slush. Just more snow.

    March is a tug-of-war between spring and Old Man Winter with temperatures rollercoastering from thirties to seventies and back again. Several times. In the same week. And there's MUD.

    My favorite month is April because there are pops of color. The grass greens up, the forsythia and daffodils give bursts of yellow, and the crocuses blossom into purple. The downside are the April showers.

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    1. That's late April-May here, Annette. Still a while to go...

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  19. I'm in Ohio and agree that March is difficult because I'm ready for spring, but spring isn't quite ready to arrive. However, the slightly longer days and the time change help me cope. I'd say February is a bit rougher for me because of the lack of daylight. I'm always thankful it's a short month! On the upside, late April and early May make up for all the gray winter months, and they're just around the corner.

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    1. Kate, I always say the people who live with long winters appreciate spring so much more than anyone else.

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  20. So glad you have a respite from the cold and dreariness, Julia! I'm in northern Ohio, and March and April are probably the hardest months for me. As noted by others, we can go from 60s mid-day to 30s by evening on any given day. Ice today, crocuses in the morning. The sunlight helps, but the trees are all bare. I've taken to looking for the beauty of those bare black branches against a colorful sunset or sunrise to help me through until true Spring arrives. Or sun glowing through the feathery tops of tall grasses--I'll take any glimmer of beauty I can find these days. Blessings to you all this morning!

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    1. Flora, I love your attitude, and I'm going to remind myself to look for what's beautiful outside today. One think I do love is the way birds are more active now. We haven't seen the songbirds yet, but more and more winter birds are flocking and flying.

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    2. Julia, yes, birdsong! Grand-nephew and I love to take walks with our Merlin app on--woodlots and thickets are alive with birdsong come spring and summer as we walk.

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    3. Flora, don't you love how as spring comes the way the trees change - from black to not black, and then the purple haze as the buds emerge and then fade to green and greener as they leaf out. It always surprises me that tamaracks (larches) an evergreen tree is one of the last. We have 2 months to go before that begins to happen!

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    4. Margo, that first soft green fuzz about the woods always makes me happy.

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  21. Julia, you would enjoy a show on WETA, the DC area public television station, "If you Lived Here," showcasing different neighborhoods, their history, and houses for sale.

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    1. I wish I had known about it, Margaret! I'll check it out next time I'm in the DMV!

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  22. I'm not sure I should say anything but our worst months are May Grey and June Gloom where the temps are in the 60's and it grey and gloomy. It's what I call our winter here in southern Calif.
    But lately we've have pretty much overcast and cooler temps (50&60's) for much of the year. We are finally getting some much needed rain this week. My daughter moved to Portland, OR years and years ago and loves to visit us back "home" but she loves the change of seasons and the beautiful flowers and trees that all blossom in the spring in PDX.

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    1. As an easy-to-burn redhead, May and June are a nice respite for me.

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    2. Lisa, I sympathize! My father-in-law lived in Laguna Niguel; visiting him I always felt like I ought to be going about with a parasol!

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  23. I marvel again at how many of us in this community hail from various parts of Ohio! I represent the greater Columbus area, having downsized into a far north suburb of the city last fall. Though I face quite different traffic patterns now, the climate is the same as I always knew. And I am writing this post from Sanibel Island, Florida, where I am currently vacationing.

    About 30 years ago I worked for a bank and the president and executive vice president used to have this discussion all the time. They could not vacation at the same time, but it was OK because the president always wanted to escape for part of February, while the evp said he couldn't bear the thought of returning from his tropical vacation with all of March still to be faced. I come down on the side of the evp. February can be tough, yes, but I'd rather vacation in March so that when I return there's not much bad weather left.

    I will give a nod to all those who complained about November, too. It is a very, very, very GRAY month in Ohio, often sporting bleak winds and cold rains. For me the saving grace of November is that it leads into the holiday season and I am able to be distracted by the shiny baubles coming soon.

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    1. Susan, I envy your visit to Sanibel! Is the island recovering okay from the hurricane a couple years ago?

      On Friday nights, a very dear friend, Danny Morgan, plays at the Dunes. Kind of a Jimmy Buffett-type, if you're looking for some entertainment!

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    2. Thanks, Karen! We might just check that out. Yes, the island is recovering well. There's a lot that has rebuilt/fixed/reopened, though there are also still individual lots that have yet to be cleaned up much at all. We haven't been to Captiva yet, though we plan to drive there this afternoon. I have heard that Hurricane Milton last year hit Captiva pretty hard, almost obliterating the rebuilding that had happened since Ian. So I am prepared to see a little more devastation there.

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    3. Oh, Susan, have a wonderful time! I have a friend who visits Sanibel almost every year with her family; she says it's one her favorite places in the world. I'm glad to hear the rebuilding is going well.

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  24. I agree with Annette - January and February are the hardest in SW Pennsylvania. The charm of winter is gone and it's one day after the other of slush, rain, cold, ice, snow or maybe a combination of all of it. While it was 60 degrees yesterday, it was in the 30s last week so March is definitely a little bipolar. Spring wanting to come, Winter not wanting to go. But by April, there should be a mist of green on the trees and flowers popping up. I just hope my morning glories come back this year.

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    1. Grinch here. Our neighbor’s morning glories are coming through our fence which means I have to cut them back, again. Some took root in our backyard last year and my dog started eating them! They are very poisonous to cats and dogs. (But they are very pretty!) — Pat S

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    2. Oh no! Glad you were on top of that.

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    3. I love morning glories, but I had no idea they were pet poisonous! Alas, you don't see them much in Maine; I think we may be just north of the climate zone.

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    4. Oddly enough, from what I learned, morning glories are annuals, not perennials. If you have ones that are perennial, with narrow green leaves, that is kind of bindweed. But mine sure do look like "real" morning glories. Maybe they are reseeding themselves? Pennsylvania should also be beyond the zone where they would survive over winter.

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  25. You never really know what to expect with March. We get a day like yesterday with the temperature hitting 70 degrees and so we do a little dance, thinking that's it, winter is over. Except it is not as we will soon find out. Here in upstate NY some of our heaviest winter snows have come in March. I think it was in 1993 when a huge snowstorm blasted the entire east coast. But the good news when that happens is that the snow melts rather rapidly. The other day I was surprised to see that my daffodils are just popping up. I had forgotten all about them. No sign of life anywhere else though.

    I am so looking forward to not having to put on boots just to step out the door.

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    1. Right, Judi?!? That first day when you can just pull on sneakers and go feels like a miracle every year.

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  26. March in Maine, or as we call it “mud season” is my least favorite month (with April not far behind. I do love winter (it is so cozy for an introvert like me!) and skiing is easier (temperature wise) in March so I try to focus on that. The mountains are still snow covered (as they should be), but everywhere else is murky mud and no signs of green. Soon our lake-side neighborhood will be filling up with summer visitors… (I’ll keep my thoughts on that to myself…). We have a cranky saying up here in Maine that goes something like this: if you can’t handle the winter here, you don’t deserve the summers. I know, it’s cranky, but that’s what happens up here after 6 months of peace and quiet that gets suddenly disrupted by lots of random people and their jet skis!

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    1. Stacia, my husband (originally from Deer Isle) used to mutter, "Please spend your money and then go home."

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    2. I say that about the relatives - please renew your childhood and then piss-off. (I am not as nice as you, but I do smile at them and pretend I am interested, as I make yet another meal.)

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  27. In some places, we are seeing signs of spring in March. And in some places it looks like winter despite the “springtime” starting in March.

    We are getting much needed rain here in California. When I was a young child, I remember a children’s book about the weather and calendar. March was “March Showers”.

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    1. My husband moved here in early 1991, so he was around for “Miracle March” that broke the many-years drought in SoCal.

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    2. Glad to hear the rain is welcome, Diana!

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  28. I just have a quick question. Where does bomb-diggity come from? I had never heard of it. Maybe because I'm older. I had to look it up to find out that it means awesome.

    As a Californian, spring means warmer weather, showers and planning what to plant. I don't relate to snow. I like living somewhere where I have to drive a few hours to get to snow if I really want it.

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    1. I never heard of bomb-diggity either! Only "hot diggity dog," which for me is an exclamation, not a phrase I'd use to describe my sister. Julia, thanks for adding to my vocabulary.

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    2. Betty and Kim, I honestly don't know where it comes from. Maybe a New England thing? I like preserving old phrases my grandmother used, so I may have gotten it from her.

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  29. March is hard here in NW Montana, too, even though it's my birthday month so it starts with cake! The cold winter days are usually crystal clear, lighting up the snow-capped mountains that surround us, but as the weather warms, the skies are gray, the snow piles are gray, the roadsides a dull gray brown. So we went to Hawaii for 10 days -- so fab! Our thought was that a late-Feb/early March break would make the month seem shorter. Hmmm -- it does seem to be racing by!

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    1. Leslie, that's exactly my feeling as well. Late Feb/early March for a week to ten days is exactly what you need in wintery climes to get through until spring is well and truly here.

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  30. Your comparisons of the sweater and boots and the way the wood stove feels are perfect.
    I’m also a New Englander, from MA. I am in the Boston area so don’t usually have the temp and precipitation extremes of the north and western parts of the state.
    For me it’s usually the darkness which accompanies the cold, stormy weather that occurs during
    Jan and Feb. They are usually the worst months here although the past few years the weather has been a lot milder. This winter it’s been the strong, high winds which go right through you and makes it difficult to walk against them. One day I had to hold onto a car to keep from getting blown into the street. Think of the mime trying to walk and keeps getting pushed back.
    The one redeeming part of March is the time change which makes such a big difference when going home in the evening and you know that even if there is an unexpected storm the snow will dissipate a lot faster than even a month earlier.
    One March, a number of years ago, I left Boston on March 1, the temp was 0. I arrived in Charleston, South Carolina to mid sixties and flowering trees and bushes everywhere. It was as if I had been transported to a different world. By the time I came home spring was just beginning to emerge.

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    1. Anon, you remind me of one of my early book tours, which was in late-ish March; I had to leave from Boston, packing for both Phoenix, AZ and Ann Arbor Michigan! That was a challenge. :-)

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  31. I’m with Anonymous above that mid-May to about the middle/late June is the least favorite time of the year for weather in Southern California. The desert starts heating up and pulls the fog in from the ocean which leaves everyone from the coast to the foothills under grey skies. I know, it’s not the same as mud, snow, freezing weather, but it is the cross we have to bear here! That and the “Sunshine Tax”! — Pat S

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    1. Hello, Pat. I'll remember about the fog; thanks for the tip. You must be having wonderful weather now, though. Are those morning glories blooming yet?

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    2. Pat, I spent a significant portion of my teens living in the Central New York snowbelt - which means lots of rain all year round - and I know how dreary it is to have the sky gray day after day.

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  32. You named it. March - ugh. Snow season to ice season to mud season all in one month. I do hope we've seen the last of the snows - I simply can't contemplate picking up the shovel again. Shudder

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    1. Oh, I hear you, Kait. My Alexa accidentally gave me the forecast for Easton, ME instead of Buxton, ME, and it was a low of 13 with snow expected. I thought, "Those poor b@$#@*ds..."

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  33. I apologize for being absent on my own week so far, everybody. Monday was an all day getting-ready-to-travel then flying day, and Tuesday, it was the same thing, except for Virginia, who left with Walker, the Extremely Expensive (free) Cat! This is the first day since Sunday I've been able to sit down to my laptop. It's great to be back home, even if it's mud season.

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    1. As a note, your bomb-diggity sister’s pro lighting had you looking absolutely radiant for the R&R happy hour.

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  34. I lived in upstate NY for the first part of my life, and I live in Texas now. I completely agree with everything said about the northeast from January to April. I remember walking to class in the snow on May 5!
    March is beautiful in Texas: the redbud trees are blooming, the bluebonnets alongside the roads and filling the fields are spectacular, and everything is green.
    But August and September are beastly. We will see days of 100 degrees or more starting in June, sometimes thirty or more consecutive days, and by late summer we're done. The grass is totally brown (unless you've spent a fortune watering it), and the trees are gasping for breath (and we have to water our trees or they'll die).
    Two positve things: as Brenda said, we don't have to shovel heat. We also stay home when it ices or snows, because Texans have no idea how to drive in either one! - Karen R

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  35. Lisa in Long BeachMarch 12, 2025 at 1:00 PM

    When I was working it was probably December - I hated commuting in the dark both ways.

    The warm SoCal weather also meant I could also never get in the holiday spirit until I landed at O’Hare and got a good lungful of cold air.

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  36. November and February are tied as my least favorite months. November is so often dreary, gray, and damp here in southern Connecticut. I’m never warm enough, no matter how many layers of clothing I’m wearing. I’m dreading winter and wondering how many times I’ll need to shovel snow. For Thanksgiving, I usually go away for a few days to visit relatives. If I’m visiting my sister who lives In mountainous northern CT on the Massachusetts border, I’m concerned about whether or not snow will prevent me from getting there. If it’s snowing I’ll stay home. I don’t want to drive my ancient car on those straight-up-and-down hills while it’s snowing. The hills are challenging even when it’s perfectly dry.(The closest main road to her is called Mountain Road.) If I’m going to NJ to visit the other sister, I go by Amtrak. If the weather is bad, will they cancel the train? That happened to me a few years ago. The train I was supposed to be on never made it to New Haven because of flooding on the tracks farther East. It was several hours before they put an empty train in service and found a crew for it.

    Then there’s February. By the time February rolls around, I am SO tired of winter. By then I’m used to needing to dress in layers, and I’m sick of it! Often, our worst winter storms come in February, just when it seems like “maybe we won’t have more snow this winter”. I don’t make plans because I don’t know if the weather will cooperate. A few years back, some friends and I who mostly all live in different states, were thinking about having a “Girls” weekend in Florida in February. A couple of them live in Florida. The rest of us are in the northeast and the Midwest. We decided the weather was too unreliable for us to make plans to get together in February.
    I like March because #1: it’s my birthday month; #2: even if we get snow, it probably, but not always, won’t be too bad. And #3: Spring comes in March! And my corner of the world comes alive!!!

    DebRo

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  37. It's 75 degrees here in Owensboro, Kentucky today. We started the week with a high of 67, then we went to 73 yesterday, and now 75 today. It's going to be in the 70s until Sunday when we drop to the 50s (boo). Next week will be a mixture of 60s and 70s, with another drop to the 50s on next Friday. Some rain, but nothing like it was in February, when it seemed like the rain would never end. This March weather is a giant stroke of luck for us. The last two weeks look more normal, 50s and 60s, although we have had some chilly March weather in the past, even snow. So, I am loving the current weather. My weather sweet spot is low 70s. I know I should be a good candidate for moving to Florida, but that's not going too happen. I just don't want to live in Florida, although at one point I did dream of moving to Key West.

    January is usually our worst month temperature-wise, and I usually like February, since it's my birth month and Valentine's with all the red and pink hearts. But, this February brought so much rain that I was glad to see it go. So, January is usually my least favorite month where I would want to take a trip to somewhere warm (not hot) and not rainy. In the summer, I'd like to go somewhere cool (temperatures), like the mountains. I have a friend who lives in Arizona in the winter and Oregon in the summer. I envy her Oregon in the summer.

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  38. AZ here. The cruelest month is September. It's the March of the desert when you're just so damn tired of the heat and it's cooling off everywhere else...sigh....

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    1. I live in a hot part of central California. It does not cool off here until mid October, and the last few years November has been unseasonably hot.

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  39. I’m with Jenn and September as the cruelest month…except in FL, where added to heat are dew points in the 70s with air so thick you wade through it, and the threat of hurricanes. Elisabeth.

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