Monday, March 10, 2025

Remodeling Envy

JULIA SPENCER-FLEMING: Reds, I’ve got remodel envy. Now, I’m a woman who loves the so-called shelter magazines. I subscribe to HGTV Magazine and House Beautiful. I follow interior designers in Insta and bookmark pages for the Kips Bay Showhouse and the One Room Challenge. But, you know, in real life, everything in my house has been more or less the same for many, many years, and the same can be said for most of my friends.


 But two years ago, my sister redid her kitchen. 


It was the real thing - everything old went, including an oddly placed wall that squeezed everyone entering the space. She had the whole, newly opened living room-dining room area painted and new flooring laind throughout the first floor.


And her kitchen! Not fancy by the standards of those show houses and magazines, but to me, cooking all these years in my 1930-something layout, it’s spectacular. Pristine cabinets and drawers with soft-closing hinges. New stainless steel everything. A beautiful tile backsplash over cool marble countertops. A farmhouse sink deep enough to immerse a stock pot in and sweet touches like adjustable lighting and a beverage fridge right by the french doors to the deck. 


Now all I can think of is how I could maximize my work areas (Barb gained at least twice as much counter space) and make my storage so much more efficient. (It might help to get rid of two completely dead corner cupboards.)


How about you, Reds? Have you ever had remodel envy? What did you do about it?


RHYS BOWEN: I’ve just been reading about Debs’ upgrading of her pantry space. It looks brilliant. I have to say that I like my kitchen the way it is.  It has a walk in pantry, a nice breakfast area and a balcony with a view to the hills opposite. No complaints there although we do need a new stove but can’t make the effort to choose one. Instead we have to light one of the burners by turning the knob and blowing on it.  Our kids despair! 


However when we first saw our house in Arizona I drooled because everything had been remodeled, updated etc. A whole house all shiny and new. Lovely new kitchen with plenty of space. Gorgeous shower. White quartz counters everywhere–so easy to clean, and that hard faux wood floor that can be mopped in seconds. And the best thing about it–no forty year’s worth of clutter!


HALLIE EPHRON: I do, I do, alas I do have remodel envy. My daughter is an architect and she has endlessly pitched ideas for moving this wall and taking out that one and opening up the kitchen/dining room and I can see it all. We *did* redo our kitchen back in 1980 or so but the idea of “opening things up” and wasn’t yet on the horizon.

Now however, whenever I experience a bit of “remodel envy,” my next thought is: let the next owner do it.  Because how do you even live through a remodel??


LUCY BURDETTE: I do love my kitchen in Connecticut with all my heart. The pantry is a showstopper with lots of shelves and drawers and space on the floor for pots too big to fit in the main kitchen. My favorite part is the counter, made of old chestnut from someone’s barn and refinished with marine varnish. We were lucky to have built this house 25 years ago so it’s laid out exactly as I wanted it. We got a good chuckle out of my son-in-law remarking that it seemed “dated.” I will replace appliances that die (the fridge is hanging on by a thread), but no remodels for me!


HANK PHILLIPPI RYAN: Oh, gosh, I love our house. It has its quirks, definitely, and I daydream about how I could rearrange the breakfast/sunroom by blowing out the outside walls and make a screened-in porch sort of amidst the garden, but I'm never gonna do it and it would cost fifty billion dollars anyway.

 

Our home is from 1894, and we did a little renovating 20 or so years ago, but I kept every bit of original molding and decoration and  woodwork. I DID make a sewing room (yes there was a sewing room!) into a pantry, and a SUPERsmall bedroom on the 2nd floor into a closet for me (!!) but it’s really pretty original otherwise. Although–do NOT talk about the basement. There are nooks and crannies  in there (like a coal chute)  that I would not even dare go near.


DEBORAH CROMBIE:  We did the whole gutting/remodel thing back in 2007. We bought our circa 1905 house from house flippers in 1995, and the job they had done on the kitchen was far from satisfactory (although probably an improvement over the original!) so we moved windows and doors and put in all new cabinets, an island, and appliances. But we had remodel horror stories, for sure! 

 

The contractors started in January, then once they’d torn everything out, announced that they couldn’t go any further until our foundation was leveled. Then it started to rain and didn’t stop for weeks and weeks, so no work progressed. (The foundation leveling has its own horror stories!) We lived with a toaster oven and an old microwave in our dining room, washing dishes in the downstairs bathtub, for about three months.


The end result was fabulous, however, fit for a House and Garden spread, and we have never regretted it for a minute. 


JENN McKINLAY: I remodeled my kitchen myself so no envy here. It’s a 1959 ranch and I redid all the cupboards–scraping, sanding, refinishing inside and out, and new hardware. I did have to buy some new cupboards (bare wood and pre-made) to replace cupboards that weren’t able to be refinished. The fit was so tight, I had to wax the bottom of the cupboard and the slab floor and use my feet to shove it in place under my new granite counter. 

 

I did hire someone to put in granite counters and rewire the kitchen for the new steel appliances. But I put in my over the sink light and ripped out the vent and cupboards over the stove by myself. The plan is to put a skylight there (yes, I will hire someone) but I haven’t gotten to it yet because, alas, I am a seventy percenter and only get things about that far done and another project distracts me. LOL.

 

JULIA: How about you, dear readers? Have you tackled remodeling? And what, in your house, are you dreaming of changing? 


11 comments:

  1. I always grumble that there aren't enough closets [or bookshelves . . . in my dream house we'd have a library room] . . .
    We've done a bit of remodeling in each house we lived in, but nothing huge like tearing out and redoing the kitchen . . . we did add cabinets and counters in the California kitchen; we closed in an unused patio to make a much-loved sunroom in the Alabama house. Here we added solar panels and a sunroom [that made the house plants happy!] . . . .

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  2. Julia, you've hit upon a topic that makes me weep. We built our little (600 sq. ft.) log cabin in 1982 and still have the original (builder grade) kitchen. The appliances have been replaced, but I dream of new cabinets, new countertops, and a new farmer sink. My mom left me enough money to do all that when she passed away, but I took pity on my husband and instead used it to build his dream garage. The truth is, while yes, the cost is an issue, the thought of the mess keeps me from doing more than dreaming. I mean, seriously, where are we going to go to hide from it in a 600 square foot house????

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  3. I have survived washing dishes in the bathtub three times so far. The latest two involved Hugh gutting and remaking our two antique homes around us, one in Ipswich (1718!) and the other here in Amesbury, built in 1890. I'm all done with drywall dust in my cereal, thank you very much. But I got two nearly perfect kitchens, this one a bit bigger than Ipswich.

    The only thing I didn't get was a vertical cookie-sheet cabinet, sigh, but I have a reasonable workaround. The under-counter corner cabinet a 180-degree kind of lazy susan, perfect for every cooking pot with its lid on, and the door is center-hinged. All the drawers are whisper-shut. The space fills with sun and has room for two sons to join me cooking when they visit. The cabinets are white and the granite is dark, with white and black backsplash, and I pop it up with colorful utensil holders, a red electric tea kettle, and a blue Kitchenaid stand mixer. The island was custom made and is topped with wide antique boards from our Ipswich house! I love the whole thing.

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    1. Edith - I think I remember pictures from that kitchen island install; could that be?

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  4. We bought our 1955 split level in 1984. Jonathan was 2. In 1994, the year before his bar mitzvah, we had a kitchen remodel. The original kitchen had a stovetop with a griddle in the middle and one tiny wall oven that was too small to roast a turkey. I wanted a sink that was large enough to wash my turkey pan, and the largest gas oven I could find. The photo of the oven I chose showed a turkey and three other big pans inside. SOLD.!
    The cabinets aren't that good a quality. My contractor had someone he wanted to buy from and we did learn a lesson. A few years later, we replaced the counter with a beautiful slab of granite and a new, bigger sink with a better faucet. My kitchen is very small, but I can cook in it. Most of my counter top appliances live in the basement.

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  5. Kitchen remodeling is chaos: fridge and microwave in the dining room, paper plates, the granite countertops that had to wait until the cabinets were leveled. Bathrooms aren't much better: one working toilet, shower, and sink, the location of which changes daily. I've done it all, several times. Best advice? Live and work in a kitchen for several years, taking notes all the while. Deep drawers for both bathroom vanities and kitchens are key. Walk-in pantries are a delight, until the field mice discover it. I keep anything not in a bottle or tin can in large plastic tubs with sealed lids.

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  6. Nope, no reno envy or interest. As a lifelong renter, I just use things as they are. No grumbling, no complaining.

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  7. We lived in this 1932 house while all the renos were being done: slept on a mattress in the living, next to the fridge, cooked downstairs on a camping stove...never again! When we had the bathroom redone, we stayed at the cottage coming home only for a weekend to do necessary painting. No matter how you work around the upheaval and the chaos, it's mayhem until that last speck of dust is vacuumed up. And that can take a long time...Therefore, I'm happy to live with things as they are today, after 24 years here, though the bathroom is ready for a refresh; it will have to wait until we find the courage for the undertaking.

    Jenn - you get my Superwoman award for being a DIYer on the reno front. SO impressive!

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  8. Jenn; I second Amanda's comment re: your DIY skills. If you ever tire of writing, you can hire out. Think of how many fans would love to have you in their kitchen.

    When I was married, we moved every 2 - 3 years. Projects that needed to be fixed were delayed often because who would do that to toddlers. Still it was frustrating to see new carpet replace old dog scented rugs as I was packing for the next location. Now on Nome St, we never had the self confidence or the savings to upgrade; until now. We are starting small, adding glass door knobs to
    folding doors, and press on wall paper (Morris pattern) in the computer room. I have enough ceramic tile to install a improved entryway. This will be the next project after the door knob project introduces us to the world of screw drivers.

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  9. We built this house in 2004 – Started from scratch Jan 1, in the winter. Moved in in May. Sort-of finished if you count plastic over pink insulation on the walls as finished… Our previous record was to move about every 5 years – so this house to us is ancient.
    My husband is a carpenter who does all other things as well, except paint – I won’t let him. He squeezes the roller so dry trying to ‘save’ on paint, that it never covers well! Main floor is painted in rich colours – living room is ruby red and gold, open-to and adjacent dining room is gold and navy, which runs through to the kitchen. Sometimes I think of repainting but I like the colours and have no reason to sit in a neutral palate house – so no to that. Flooring in this area except the kitchen is chip board. He wants click-clack flooring (I hate the noise) and I want carpet. 23 year stand-off. It has a throw-rug.
    Second floor – same flooring issue. Bathroom is a beautiful walk-in shower – huge and safe from falling. However, the floor tiles in the shower have a crack in them – somewhere. To even find it would require that the entire place would need to be dismantled. Someone cut a very nice hole in the plaster 10 years ago to peek inside to see how bad it is. (It, at least, does not leak through into the living room ceiling.) View to test still exists – you don’t notice it after a while. Every winter he says “I should fix the shower this winter. There are nice plastic ones now…” (Nooooo! Oxymoron - plastic and nice.) The good news is that by spring he has still not made up his mind, and so it gets placed in hiatus until next winter.
    As I see it, the next reno to happen is when we need to move to live on only one floor and the sunroom becomes a bedroom, and I have no idea where we will shower as there is no place on this level to build one, or just leave it all as is to the kids in the will. They will be thrilled!

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  10. Many years ago we had just bought our first house, a brand new manufactured home (different somehow from a double-wide but I don't remember the difference now. Maybe it depended on who was talking about it.) Right away, I could see that the design as all wrong. The kitchen was very small which meant you could almost stand in one spot and reach everything you needed to. The living room was very long with a blank wall at the southern end, although there were plenty of windows along the side.

    I got out the floorplans and studied them. Then, on the plans, I took erased a wall in the kitchen so it was now opened up to the dark end of the living room. Then I drew in a large window for that sunny southern wall. It looked very good. My then husband's only comment was "you don't get a new house and then start changing it." I couldn't see why not, but there was a matter of money so that was that. But I knew it could work and be much better.

    As luck would have it, and I mean bad luck, a couple years later our house was on fire! Fortunately it was in the middle of the day. Eventually the firemen came and put the fire out (and reminded us that 'if it starts up again, don't hesitate to call us.") Everything from the ceilings up were a total loss and everything else was heavily smoke damaged.

    I don't know what you might have done, but when we talked to the contractors about all the repairs, I took my chance and brought out the floor plans. They agreed that that could work and because they would already be on the premises it wouldn't cost a whole lot extra. Of course it took way longer than we expected since unbeknown to us the contractors also drove school bus, so they work day with us was much shorter. Still, it turned out beautifully.

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