Friday, April 25, 2025

The Magic of Putting Pen to Paper: How Writing Opened My World @JaneBertch


LUCY BURDETTE: Today I’m so pleased to welcome my friend Jane Bertch back to the blog. You may remember that she moved to Paris from Chicago via London and founded the very popular La Cuisine Paris. Then she wrote a wonderful memoir about the project, The French Ingredient, and now she has a new adventure beginning— a podcast, a newsletter, and a series of retreats in Paris focused on creativity. 


JANE BERTCH: There’s something magical about putting pen to paper. And what I’ve found, through my writing journey, is that the simple act of writing can open you to versions of yourself you never even knew existed. 

When I first began writing, it wasn’t with grand ambition—it was during a difficult time when I needed a distraction. I needed to reconnect and speak with myself. To listen to what I needed to say, I started writing, not for anyone else, but for myself. To explore my thoughts. To give shape to feelings that were difficult to name. To test my voice. It was clumsy and frustrating, but at the same time exhilarating. 

That quiet practice of self-connection blossomed into something bigger. I wrote a book. It felt like the boldest thing I’d ever done—exposing my thoughts, my voice, and my vulnerability to the world. But something magical happened: people responded. They didn’t just read—they reached out. They shared their stories. I soon realized that the beauty of human connection is that when I dared to share my story, I quickly recognized it is a shared story—it soon became ‘our’ story. 

Writing gave me more than clarity—it gave me connection and community.

Through the book, I found my community: women, creators, and thinkers who needed to be reminded that at any age, no matter the circumstances, anything is possible. Sharing my voice, as imperfect as it may be, allowed others to share theirs. That connection became so meaningful that I wanted to keep it going. So, I launched a personal newsletter—separate from my business—to continue testing and refining my voice and, most importantly, to nurture and build connections. I found freedom in writing more personally and now relish a space where my vulnerability and curiosity can exist openly, basking in the light of day rather than remaining in the recesses of my mind.

But it didn’t stop there. Writing not only helped me find others—it made me realize I wanted to build a community with them. To create a deeper space for authenticity, which then led me to dream of an entirely new business. One that would be a new chapter of my life – or as I like to say, another petal on my flower.  The idea of GenerateHER retreats was born— a dream to focus on cultivating real community. A place where women can come together and remind themselves of the wonderfully creative and courageous beings they are.

All of this—just from daring to put pen to paper.

So, writing is more than a tool – it’s a key to a new door waiting to be opened. It’s how we meet ourselves, and often, how we meet each other.

So the next time you pick up that pen, just imagine what new, beautiful community you might meet along the way. You might just uncover someone very special amongst them….a new version of you!

You can learn more about Jane here.

About La Cuisine Paris:  

La Cuisine Paris is a French culinary school in the heart of Paris. With a team of classically trained French chefs, we offer cooking classes and food tours in English. We welcome visitors from all over the world with the focus of sharing food and culture.


 

24 comments:

  1. This is such an inspiring journey, Jane . . . thank you for sharing it with all of us.

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    1. Dear Joan! Thank you for reading along! So happy to meet you!

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  2. Jane, the cover is gorgeous. Your writing journey sounds very similar to my writing ✍🏻. I began by writing for myself because I found it to be a way for me to express my thoughts. I’m still writing. Now I’m venturing into the realm of writing mysteries with a historical fiction slant.

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    1. Diana I just love that we have this in common! The thing I love about writing is that we ALL are writers...something we can all have in common. I'm still enjoying discovering this new version of me =)

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  3. Jane, welcome back! I read the book after you were here last time. Now I just have to get myself to Paris... Best of luck in your new business.

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    1. Thank you Edith! One little step at a time - but it's thanks to writing that I started to uncover my new interests! And I do hope one day we will enjoy a glass of wine here in Paris and discuss!

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  4. Jane, there is something magical about women making connections through writing. Here we make that connection every morning, expressing our thoughts and discussing books we have read. I also read THE FRENCH INGREDIENT after your first visit. Many of us talked about taking one of your classes together. Still dreaming.

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    1. Hello Judy! You are so right! There is something special about writing and all the wonderful connections it brings. I'm so lucky to have met so many wonderful people - including all of you. Now I am still waiting for you in Paris!

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  5. Community is so important! It's great that your decision to write brought you community as well as success. Congratulations! All the best in your coming endeavors.

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    1. Merci dear Gillian! Let me add to that community is my community of readers! Writing more makes me read more - and I love making time for it. Thank you so much for your well wishes...fingers are crossed!

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  6. Hank Phillippi RyanApril 25, 2025 at 9:21 AM

    Oh, this is so fantastic! What a dream come true. And you work so hard and so beautifully to make it happen! Love this.

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    1. Thank you dear Hank! It is un uphill battle to start something new - but goodness knows I am trying! One step at a time!

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  7. I also read your book last year and keep it on my bookshelf if inspirational books. I found the parts about pivoting and being creative during the COVID lockdown particularly interesting and helpful. The sense of community you created in a city that is oftentimes known for not being as welcoming to non-French people is remarkable!

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    1. Thank you for reading my book Stacia! My goodness you just made me flash back to those times...but even in the worst of times, something wonderful can come out of them. Community is everything, and I am so pleased to count you in it!

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  8. This is truly inspirational! You're so right about the way writing can create communities.

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    1. Dear Hallie! Thank you! And I prove my point how writing brings us all together - and I am so pleased to meet you! You are stuck with me now =)

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  9. JANE: It's wonderful that your dreams have come true with your writing connections.
    Best wishes for your new business.
    P.S. I am working on my late summer/early fall getaway. I am connecting either via London or Paris. Fingers crossed that I will be spending time in that magical city. And I am like others who dream of taking one of your classes.

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    1. Hello dear Grace! Thank you for your wonderful wishes. One day at a time - but I have my fingers crossed. No matter what happens, being able to share and exchange with all of you is really the best part! Hope to see you in Paris!

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  10. My goodness, Jane, just reading about your adventures and enterprises makes me tired! You are so right in that writing, first and foremost, is for the writer, and only later, may, for a reader.

    I find it interesting that literally pen-to-paper, writing be hand, turns out to open up our brains in ways we didn't realize. When my youngest daughter went to Maine's magnet high school, they taught her how to take notes effectively - always by hand, not on your laptop. Now, I wouldn't want to draft a whole manuscript that way, but I always do my initial story and character planning by hand, in a separate notebook for each novel.

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    1. Bonjour dear Julia! I am perpetually tired, but always with a full heart (and a cup of coffee.) Isn't it so much the case that writing by hand does something magical for us...there have been plenty of studies to suggest it. In any case, I do just truly love hand writing - I am probably the last person on earth who still keeps a paper calendar...I just love how it feels when I write out my rendez-vous! I love the idea of you sketching out your characters and bringing them to life!

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  11. Beautiful book cover, Jane! I still make my lists on paper by hand, my "events" on a paper calendar, and my thank you notes by hand. Handwriting is our most personal expression, don't you think?

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  12. Melissa Gibbs FitzpatrickApril 25, 2025 at 2:00 PM

    Loved reading this, Jane! I adored your book. And hearing you speak of your gratitude for - and embrace of - all these new adventures, experiences and connections speaks directly to some of my own profoundly meaningful life experiences. It fills my heart with happiness for you!

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  13. Wonderful post, Jane. And if I didn't say it before, I love The French Ingredient cover. All the best with GenerateHER. Intriguing idea.

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